When a man says he wants a woman " with a sense of humour " I think to myself avoid at all costs . Why ? Because it will mean he likes to tell racist sexest jokes that are offensive and if you're not laughing you've no sense of humour. He will no doubt have many other obnoxious behaviours that he's unwilling unable or simple too thick to want to change and if you don't laugh at his ignorant behaviour you won't be judged to have a sense of humour . Stay well clear of this guy who will also be homophobic xenophobic right wing and bullying of anyone he perceives as weaker while simpering to anyone( usually another male) who he perceives as the ideal .P.S. part of his problem is that he may be a closeted gay man who still goes to church every Sunday and is a pillar of the community . A bit extreme in my judgement . Maybe but I've met them they're real .and dating sites are full of them .
Are often so off-putting ,scruffy beards are so common. I like beards but neat and clean not looking like a deserted birds nest . Guys posing in the shower sends the wrong message as does the picture of men lying in bed .Well you know what that message is don't think I need to voice it. If men can't make the effort to look presentable I know they will be exasperating untidy types who open cupboard doors empty drawer contents onto floor because they can't find anyrhing in their mess. They likely throw their clothes on the floor then pick them up wear them again for weeks by the looks of some guys, they may even sleep in them . Work clothes are acceptable of course not talking about that it's the guys slouched on couch who had sudden impulse to join a site and are so out of touch they have no clue how sloppy they look. Perhaps there's equally sloppy women it's quite the norm miwadays in certain sections to look like a slob . Older men in hoodie!s!! Don't get me started .....dress like an adult but then .....you obviously don't give a fiddlers
Lots of us here are getting on a bit could drop dead or just have a stroke loose the power to tap out a message so what happens to the profile ? I see profiles here that have not been used for 3 or 4 yrs does it matter to people that when theyre going to be dead that theres all this crap left behind or do lbloggers see it as their legacy ? C.S. doesn't delete stuff we write its out there, no taking it back . I think its wrong that CS has this power . On a bad day you could write something you wish you hadn't.....it's unfair . At least when you delete Facebook its all gone .....what a relief .
Why do we choose the names we do on dating sites ? How much does it tell us about someone ? Why do some men call themselves after a car ? That's something I find weird .
A year ago I was going to delete my profile but wanted to get to 10000 views and now it's nearly 20000 I'm not leaving . I'm on a roll want to get in the top 10 . How exciting or sad or funny is that ? Amazing how my life became so utterly dull .
What made you decide to give up on the dating game ? How liberating does it feel ?
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