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Hey!!! Guess what??? This is a dating site, so dont be surprised if a man opens up his heart directly to you! Writting about what ever he wants, trully and respectfully to you, is the only way for him to show you how much he likes you! THIS IS A NORMAL THING FOR GOD SHAKE!!! We are not here to talk about the moon and the Stars ( although they do play their part in the "movie")...

If he is not responding to your email, at the first 3, then you should understand that he is not interested to you. So stop sending and sending weird text's

If you are here to make money, i suggest you to move into the porn field and learn more about the basics...Be a star, dont waiste your life like this!
You should have the decency to say it in your profile. We dont hate womans who do this for living, we hate the hidden ones who trying to screw up our lifes!!!

If on the other hand, you are not feel interested as he does for you, then you should take some time to answer him back at least and say what ever you want to say. It's not so honest act to speak about true values in life in your profile and not take some time to behave as a normal and kind human being to those who sent you a polite text. You are ruin the whole thing, this, here, what we are trying to do, to find our match. This is happening for real in life, because many guys change their behavior into not so good behavior after they tried their best into introducing them selve's to you and they didn't get any response back at all...So, Honesty and Decency here is a MUST! If we are here to find what we are looking for...

The Bitterness of Divorce

The 2019 movie — Holiday in the Wild further highlighted some of the emotions experienced when a marriage is coming to an end. These different emotions usually highlights what the marriage meant to the individuals that are involved. In the movie, Kate Conrad[Kristin Davis] was devastated when her husband — Drew Conrad told her that he was moving out and that their marriage was over, it was a huge blow for her even though things were not particularly great in their marriage.
People experience different and difficult emotions when an intimate marital relationship breaks down. Emotions ranging from disappointment in themselves because they didn’t put enough effort to make it work[the blame game starts here and it is not good for your mental well-being], hurt, break down of trust, shame, guilt, bitterness, sadness; because these emotions are not visible the individual might look okay even when they come to work but deep down they are suffering and require help before things go out of hand.
Some people feel really embarrassed when their marriage fails and it makes them feel that they have failed, these feelings become severe depending on their commitment to the marriage, their kind of person, social circle, family, religious and cultural influence, and more.
My awareness of my emotions was not this developed when I experienced divorce years ago but, it was tough for me to come face-to-face with the relationships in my life and my circle of friends, the church community and more. I avoided them like a plague because apart from the torrents of emotions and personal disappointment in myself for even going into the marriage in the first instance and also my lack of wisdom or strength of character to keep the marriage together, they were far from being supportive but judging and you could read from their body language and facial expression,
Therefore to help you navigate the hurt and pain that result from a broken marriage, whether you are at the verge of it or you have been divorced, here are 5 Mindsets to have in order to move past it
DON’T GET IN THE BLAME GAME
There would be a thousand reason to want to blame yourself for the demise of your marriage which is what most people would do, and I am not asking you not to take responsibility for what has happened however, remember it takes the two people involved to make it work or not, however, the challenge with just blaming yourself is that it would make you feel worse with an already difficult situation and you cannot afford the baggage of such emotion. Get past that simplistic and easy way out thinking and get help with gaining better perspective why the marriage didn’t work from your own end, become aware of the learning points so that you can do things differently when next you have the opportunity.
2. YOU OWE IT TO YOURSELF TO BE HAPPY
Marriage is an important decision we enter into, just like every major decision of our lives however in spite of our effort to succeed, somethings just don’t work no matter how hard we try. Therefore, we must admit if it isn’t working and not use our psyche, loss of self esteem or self confidence or becoming a shadow of your old self as a statement to make anyone know it wasn’t worth continuing.
Marriage does not make anyone happy. If you are not a happy person before going into marriage, it won’t make you happy. Happiness is a function of service, what cause are you giving yourself to? After all said and done, it is still your life therefore be happy and live to your fullest potential. Choose to be happy, when you are living a life of purpose and significance you will be happy.
3. CHANGE YOUR CIRCLE OF INFLUENCE & LOCATION.
In the movie — Holiday in the Wild, Kate went on a vacation to Zambia in Africa from her regular New York life. That change helped her to focus less on herself particularly when she saw the Elephant calf whose mother had been killed by poachers. She regained one of the emotions.

A few times a week, I pass a cemetery that borders a major roadway. It's a huge piece of land, probably 4 acres and appears to be full of flowers on the grave-sites. The cemetery in Miami where my parents are buried doesn't permit artificial flowers and I don't know if this one does but, as they say, people are dying to get inside the place, hopefully those who are remembered will get real flowers and not fakes.

I can see when the ground is prepared for an upcoming burial as they have plywood covering the hole and a blue canopy with wheels set over the plot waiting for the event. Sometimes, there are a few scattered around the cemetery, especially on weekends.

If I pass by in the afternoon, traffic may be backed up at a red light giving more time to look over and see people visiting the graves of loved ones. One day, I saw a man sitting on the ground and appeared to be leaning over a small gravestone. He had a wheelchair that was tipped on it's side and partly folded, also a blanket laid out and what appeared to be a basket. My best guess would be, he brought food and intended to be there for a while.

From the street, you cannot see any roads or walkways, my guess is the passage ways run parallel to the highway and it would be extremely difficult for someone in a wheelchair to maneuver over the lawn to be where he was.

Twenty minutes later, after doing an errand, I passed the cemetery again and the man was still there. It's been a few days now and I keep thinking about it...



I chose the blog category: Family and think the man is still grieving over the loss of a loved one.

Every year, it's Thanksgiving dinner at my daughter's house and every year, it's a neighbor, relative or friend of a friend who is in town for the weekend who joins us.
This time, a woman with with 2 young sons was a guest and she said "Do you remember me?" I hesitated and said "No, but I was once abducted by Aliens and have occasional memory lapses" she went on to introduce herself and explain.

Now I remember... It's been at least 25 years. They went to high school together and she had been to my house many times. Was her hair style different? Perhaps it was the 35 pounds along the way she gained that changed her appearance.

well with the season of good will now past , i had a interesting message from my sister ,,which was that she had received a christmas gift that has caused her concern ,,,, why well this gift being electronic requires a certain app to use it ,,but the catch is that this app requires a monthly fee ,
so this gift can now be a burden especially as my sister lives on a pension ,,
over to you folks what gifts have you received that have been of no use to you or what gifts have been well thought out and have delighted you ,,,,,