The best way to handle unwanted mail, is to Block the member that you do not want to communicate with.
The only way you can block someone, is if they send you an Email or an eCard. Otherwise there is no reason to preemptively block them and fill up your Blocked List.
When you are viewing a Mail or eCard they sent you, click on the " Block this Member" button in the right sidebar. at the bottom of the page.
The next time they try to write to you, they will get a message saying they have been blocked - so they will know you don’t appreciate what they have previously sent.
If the member has displayed bad manners or bad taste, the Block feature is the best solution. However, you should report anyone who you suspect of scam or illegal activity to: Report Abuse.
Next Up: What happens when I block someone?
No, you cannot block people from viewing your profile.
You can block people from sending you Email and eCards.
You can also block groups of people from specific locations, ages, etc. from sending you Email and eCards.
It's best to take the Views lightly and ignore those in whom you have no interest.
Each person that views your profile, can only show up in your Who's Viewed Me List ONE TIME.... no matter how many times they view your profile.
You can block members by gender, location, marital status, or age range. But once in a while, you may want to contact someone outside your location or age range.
If you do email someone that you have blocked, then they won't be able to contact you back.
So we have designed an "override" where if you contact them first, then they can contact you back.
Sometimes members get likes and respond with an email that says "I'm not interested". This email will trigger the "override" and allow them to email you.
Click here to learn how to block members by age range or location »
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click the Blocked List link in the list of links.
A list of the people you have Blocked will appear.
Then click the checkbox in the right column of the Members you want to UN-BLOCK.
Then click the " Unblock Checked" button at the bottom of the page.
Then click on the "Trash ()" icon to the right of the Members you want to UN-BLOCK.
This will delete them from your Blocked List, and they WILL be able to contact you again.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click the Blocked List link in the list of links.
A list of the people you have Blocked will appear.
In the top nav bar, click on the "Profile" dropdown. It will expand.
Click on the ( Menu) icon on the top right corner of the page. The menu will expand.
Then click on the dropdown that says "My Profile". It will expand.
Then click on Edit Settings in the list of links.
Then click on Edit Block Settings in the list of links.
Then select the criteria of members that you want to block (by Location, Age Range, Gender, Marital Status, etc.). Then click the "Save Changes" button.