Hiya Tru, well, very few are those lucky ones as yourself...and we are all happy for you two... But, no, there is no negativity in the way I see the things, I am just being realistic... It will be stupid if I just drop everything, especially the business with serious investment made, a large and loyal number of clients and go for something that might end after few months. I believe it's way easier if one has no serious commitments...JMO
PS I had to put the laser glasses on, as your smile nearly blinded me
Oh, come on J, distance is not only an excuse... If one is seriously settle, home and career wise, it will be a very difficult decision to leave everything behind in exchange of a blurred future with someone he/she barely knows. I stopped looking because, now, I don't even want to change the town...
If we didn't have anything strong to hold on and stay together before why would I want to waste more time now?! So, the answer is "No"...I've never done it,and never will...
Well, you are right... If you rely on a photo to tell you what the other one really is, it is very much likely to be scammed or disappointed. You are trying to flatter me Guy, putting me in the pretty group, haha, no, I am not one of them and I don't get much mail.
Hahah, well, if they try to convince me otherwise, they have read at least the headline... I do reply in a polite way if I have to be honest, but ignore mails like "how r u" or "whatsup wanna chat"... Don't know about the pretty girls, they probably get more attention, but also get pissed off too...
My headline is "Single but NOT looking", and you know what, they write to try and convince me I actually don't really mean that... Don't reply, that's polite in it's own, "dating site" way!
I am a talker...I won't keep quiet if I have something to say... Communication is everything...One can do a lot but when there is no communication the action means less to me... And I do listen... Sometimes a single word within a sentence can tell you so much more about the other one without even realising it.
Some women are trying to change every man they meet and after a while they wonder where the guy they used to like has gone... If the things about him are so unlikable may be you are with the wrong person... The solution is ...change the man.
RE: What Personality?
I am not supposed to be that mellow J. hahahaha...