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Sep 26, 2015 3:52 AM CST Cant believe its true.
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
its been 4 years already since i joined this free club.
with high expectations, cause I've never been on a dating site before, and lots of excitement.

well, things have changed a bit since that day, hahaha.

still looking for miss Right, but not much left of the original high hopes I had.
That has nothing to do by the way with the quality of this site. I still think its an amazing site with loads of good features and still very happy about the fact that its absolutely free.
well done.

and i blamed it on the distances between potential candidates, which obviously IS a very important issue here, but recently i start thinking that the older i get, the less flexible and willing to do a lot of compromising i get as well.

but not all hope is lost!!!

(or is it?).


sigh
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Sep 26, 2015 3:58 AM CST Cant believe its true.
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Rogerzoekt: its been 4 years already since i joined this free club.
with high expectations, cause I've never been on a dating site before, and lots of excitement.

well, things have changed a bit since that day, hahaha.

still looking for miss Right, but not much left of the original high hopes I had.
That has nothing to do by the way with the quality of this site. I still think its an amazing site with loads of good features and still very happy about the fact that its absolutely free.
well done.

and i blamed it on the distances between potential candidates, which obviously IS a very important issue here, but recently i start thinking that the older i get, the less flexible and willing to do a lot of compromising i get as well.

but not all hope is lost!!!

(or is it?).


No, as you say there is a lot more on this site than the few people who post here.

Try the supermarket for chatting up, you can tell a lot from peoples shopping trollies.

But take care but you can chat up without getting arrested, just choose your potential friend carefully.
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Sep 26, 2015 4:05 AM CST Cant believe its true.
petofisandor
petofisandorpetofisandorToronto, Ontario Canada40 Posts
Hi, Rog,

Don't lose hope.

I had lost my last girlfriend to a break-up sixteen years ago. I then joined all kinds of dating sites, mostly free ones. Sixteen years I flew solo. The closest I ever got to six in those years was shaking hands with women. I think I felt 13 bottoms on the sly, brushed against 5 breasts, and stole two or three kisses. That, in sixteen years, after having retired from the battle field of guerilla warfare as a sixual revolutionary.

I reached sixty last year. I wrote to my brother and sister whether they heard of anyone finding love after sixty. Both wrote back, with encouraging news: my sister's mother-in-law moved in with a guy when she was seventy, and my brother's best friends had each found a gf after 64.

A month later I asked a pretty looking woman at a yard sale, "would you like to go to breakfast with me?" and she came, and we've been dating ever since.

She's normal, and in love with me, I love her as much as I am capable, but it's not much, because I am insane.

But she's so nice with me and so good to me and for me that I decided she's a keeper. God only knows what she sees in me. It's a miracle. Sometimes I think an unknown benefactor of mine pays her well to imitate love for me. She denied that (I asked).

So there... what are you, Rog, 35, 45? Big deal. The important thing that I learned is to look for the good in people, and not to be critical for your own sake. And it helps if you find the one person on the globe who thinks the world of you.
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Sep 26, 2015 4:15 AM CST Cant believe its true.
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Rogerzoekt: its been 4 years already since i joined this free club.
with high expectations, cause I've never been on a dating site before, and lots of excitement.

well, things have changed a bit since that day, hahaha.

still looking for miss Right, but not much left of the original high hopes I had.
That has nothing to do by the way with the quality of this site. I still think its an amazing site with loads of good features and still very happy about the fact that its absolutely free.
well done.

and i blamed it on the distances between potential candidates, which obviously IS a very important issue here, but recently i start thinking that the older i get, the less flexible and willing to do a lot of compromising i get as well.

but not all hope is lost!!!

(or is it?).


You make your own luck on dating sites. Distance is just an excuse,If you are serious about wanting a relationship then the only person who can make it happen is you.
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Sep 26, 2015 4:17 AM CST Cant believe its true.
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
allthegoodnamest: You make your own luck on dating sites. Distance is just an excuse,If you are serious about wanting a relationship then the only person who can make it happen is you.


Have you had any luck All, serious question.
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Sep 26, 2015 4:19 AM CST Cant believe its true.
allthegoodnamest: You make your own luck on dating sites. Distance is just an excuse,If you are serious about wanting a relationship then the only person who can make it happen is you.
morning john....hope your well mate. thats true......thumbs up
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Sep 26, 2015 4:29 AM CST Cant believe its true.
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
truheart1941: morning john....hope your well mate. thats true......


I'm good thanks pete... Too many people waiting for things to happen rather than actually trying to make it happen.. How's thing wit you & the " ball & chain"laugh wave
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Sep 26, 2015 4:35 AM CST Cant believe its true.
allthegoodnamest: I'm good thanks pete... Too many people waiting for things to happen rather than actually trying to make it happen.. How's thing wit you & the " ball & chain"
laugh laugh yer great thanks......love her to pieces....grin
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Sep 26, 2015 4:38 AM CST Cant believe its true.
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
truheart1941: yer great thanks......love her to pieces....


No one deserves it more than you.. I'm really happy for you & hope you both have a long & prosperous life together.handshake heart wings
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Sep 26, 2015 4:43 AM CST Cant believe its true.
allthegoodnamest: No one deserves it more than you.. I'm really happy for you & hope you both have a long & prosperous life together.
Awww. thanks mate...comeing from you ....that means a lot to me/us....because i know you mean it.....hug hug cheers
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Sep 26, 2015 4:46 AM CST Cant believe its true.
Babettefr
BabettefrBabettefrLa France, Pays de la Loire France13 Threads 1,955 Posts
Rogerzoekt: its been 4 years already since i joined this free club.
with high expectations, cause I've never been on a dating site before, and lots of excitement.

well, things have changed a bit since that day, hahaha.

still looking for miss Right, but not much left of the original high hopes I had.
That has nothing to do by the way with the quality of this site. I still think its an amazing site with loads of good features and still very happy about the fact that its absolutely free.
well done.

and i blamed it on the distances between potential candidates, which obviously IS a very important issue here, but recently i start thinking that the older i get, the less flexible and willing to do a lot of compromising i get as well.

but not all hope is lost!!!

(or is it?).


Roger,,wave wave
salut,,
Been wondering where you've been grin grin we don't see you around here for quite a time ,, been thinking you got it ,,grin grin
Frenchi's are quite rare here,, and yes that distance ,,every system has always a weak point,, who will cross the seas,,, if not you? then maybe not them too ,, so we just keep floating around ,,,
wave wave wave wave handshake
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Sep 26, 2015 5:17 AM CST Cant believe its true.
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
true.

dont post much here anymore.
its not the point for me being here.

but indeed one needs to travel to join the loved one i guess.

who knows, one day.

handshake
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Sep 26, 2015 5:40 AM CST Cant believe its true.
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
tomcatwarne: Have you had any luck All, serious question.


Sorry Tom , missed your post.. To answer your question, had a lot of empty promises but as yet, no cigar.handshake moping
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Sep 26, 2015 5:43 AM CST Cant believe its true.
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Sorry Tom , missed your post.. To answer your question, had a lot of empty promises but as yet, no cigar.


Keep trying, a fine looking lad like you will get lucky I'm sure.cheers
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Sep 26, 2015 5:43 AM CST Cant believe its true.
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Sorry Tom , missed your post.. To answer your question, had a lot of empty promises but as yet, no cigar.


Keep trying, a fine looking lad like you will get lucky I'm sure.cheers
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Sep 26, 2015 5:43 AM CST Cant believe its true.
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Sorry Tom , missed your post.. To answer your question, had a lot of empty promises but as yet, no cigar.


Keep trying, a fine looking lad like you will get lucky I'm sure.cheers
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Sep 26, 2015 5:47 AM CST Cant believe its true.
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
tomcatwarne: Keep trying, a fine looking lad like you will get lucky I'm sure.


Thanks mate... I am trying.. Very tryinglaugh handshake
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Sep 26, 2015 6:32 AM CST Cant believe its true.
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Rogerzoekt: its been 4 years already since i joined this free club.
with high expectations, cause I've never been on a dating site before, and lots of excitement.

well, things have changed a bit since that day, hahaha.

still looking for miss Right, but not much left of the original high hopes I had.
That has nothing to do by the way with the quality of this site. I still think its an amazing site with loads of good features and still very happy about the fact that its absolutely free.
well done.

and i blamed it on the distances between potential candidates, which obviously IS a very important issue here, but recently i start thinking that the older i get, the less flexible and willing to do a lot of compromising i get as well.

but not all hope is lost!!!

(or is it?).

I've read this several times, but I can't work out what you can't believe is true. confused
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Sep 26, 2015 6:36 AM CST Cant believe its true.
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
allthegoodnamest: You make your own luck on dating sites. Distance is just an excuse,If you are serious about wanting a relationship then the only person who can make it happen is you.





Oh, come on J, distance is not only an excuse...
If one is seriously settle, home and career wise, it will be a very difficult decision to leave everything behind in exchange of a blurred future with someone he/she barely knows.
I stopped looking because, now, I don't even want to change the town... wine
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Sep 26, 2015 6:49 AM CST Cant believe its true.
KremaP: Oh, come on J, distance is not only an excuse...
If one is seriously settle, home and career wise, it will be a very difficult decision to leave everything behind in exchange of a blurred future with someone he/she barely knows.
I stopped looking because, now, I don't even want to change the town...
hi K.....but negitive thoughts...have negitive results.....not saying your wrong....just saying...grin wave do you like my smile..grin pointing cleaned my teeth this morning....rolling on the floor laughing
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