good question im undecided so long on my own and never had a serious enough relationship where i lived wih someone so i not sure if i could live with someone now having said that i hope im proved wrong and i can setle down with someone having my own space is all well and good but it can be lonely
well i will just finish by saying if you feel you cant trust him then whats the point whether your fears are justified or not be to unhealthy a relationship and on that note im going to bed before my head hitws the desk
well from what you told me and what i read of the known facts(please note sv im being careful of defamation here lol) i be bit worried its not a positive indicator he cheating on her but it be somthing i be concerned about if wasnt totally honest from start
ah ok slightly different perspective then first question was he totally open about being in contact with the exes or did gf find out and ask about it it could be ok though if he dated behind other ex backs i be bit worried dating and having a gf bit different he could date a girlbut not consider her a gf and not have any strong feelings for her a gf bit more a long term thing then im single so what i know
yes we dont know whole story but im commenting on from op post as the bf not around to offer his side can only comment from her perspective might not hold up in a court of law but its a forum for discussion not a court case
well my impression was he in contact with women he cheated on her with by her expression playing around yes i agree nothing wrong having a friendship with a ex another matter though if he cheated on current gf
do you realy need us tell you what you already know? your a beautiful woman dont settle for 2nd best dump the idiot and pick a guy that respects you and is more worthy of you
well i suppose if i was in that situation my first thought would be will i be a good stepdad will the child accept me etc i dont have kids myself so i guess it be more nerve wracking if i had my own from a previous relationship my next thought would be wow i get to be a dad and no diper changes
well first of all you should not feel your looks are less so than your sisters lot of models i would not even look twice at attraction can be lot of things way she smiles , her eyes or just way she tilts her head from what i see your an attractive young woman and if i was 20 yrs younger and live closer i be chasing you myself
well my impression is she sorting out her feelings one way or other ,the fact she texting him but not talking says to me she bit undecided how she feels
get a guy with lot of patience and understanding if he respects you he will understand later he can visit house for few hrs watch a movie have a home cooked dinner then go home after that well depends on how kids feel about him and how comfortable they feel with him in house
very true i was in opposite siuation once new gf told her kids about me and 2nd or 3rd date i met them never was i so nervous lol thought it to soon to be meeting them myself but i went with her instincts turned out ok in that i got on great with kids but relationship didnd last and i still wonder how they felt about it after it ended
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RE: A really geeky question on dating.. and stuff. .
im saying if a person has so many doubts from the beginning for whatever reason then its highly unlikely they ever fully trust them