How long has it been? ( Archived) (86)

Jul 9, 2009 7:13 PM CSTHow long has it been?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar, Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts

How long has it been?(Vote Below)

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One week to one month
37
36%
over 6 months but under a year
21
21%
over one year
15
15%
like the desert misses the rain
29
28%
Total Votes
102
Two months here...

Does not really bother me, but then again I can use some intimate touches. Way over two months as far as an emotional connection is concerned.I still believe in the ways of magic...that sentimental wind shall come by sooner or later.

I do wonder how long long this drought will last at times. The physical part is not the issue...the connection part is the issue.
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Jul 9, 2009 7:16 PM CST How long has it been?
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados36 Threads 3,203 Posts
StressFree: Two months here...

Does not really bother me, but then again I can use some intimate touches. Way over two months as far as an emotional connection is concerned.I still believe in the ways of magic...that sentimental wind shall come by sooner or later.

I do wonder how long long this drought will last at times. The physical part is not the issue...the connection part is the issue.



tell me about it...........but its worth the wait............been years for me but if the connection is not there the physical part is just not worth it anyways.JMO
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Jul 9, 2009 7:18 PM CST How long has it been?
Polarbutterfly
PolarbutterflyPolarbutterflyunknown, Northwest Territories Canada115 Threads 9,486 Posts
It's been awhile,needing to whet my whistle.
However,I'm patient enough to know that
I'm worth the wait as I'm sure he is. wine
StressFree: Two months here...

Does not really bother me, but then again I can use some intimate touches. Way over two months as far as an emotional connection is concerned.I still believe in the ways of magic...that sentimental wind shall come by sooner or later.

I do wonder how long long this drought will last at times. The physical part is not the issue...the connection part is the issue.
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Jul 9, 2009 7:24 PM CST How long has it been?
avecaim
avecaimavecaimSan Jose, California USA9 Threads 1 Polls 4,084 Posts
confused laugh over a year simply but since it was good....long time rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 9, 2009 7:27 PM CST How long has it been?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
sultryash: tell me about it...........but its worth the wait............been years for me but if the connection is not there the physical part is just not worth it anyways.JMO


I concur...

But I am all for one night stands...takes the edge off momentarily....
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Jul 9, 2009 7:29 PM CST How long has it been?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
StressFree: I concur...

But I am all for one night stands...takes the edge off momentarily....


Is it ever possible for a one night stand to blossom into a relationship though? dunno
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Jul 9, 2009 7:30 PM CST How long has it been?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
sweetowen: Is it ever possible for a one night stand to blossom into a relationship though?


I'm asking because the thought's been on MY mind lately.
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Jul 9, 2009 7:31 PM CST How long has it been?
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados36 Threads 3,203 Posts
StressFree: I concur...

But I am all for one night stands...takes the edge off momentarily....


nah one night stands .......never did and not interested now...dont do anything for me
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Jul 9, 2009 7:32 PM CST How long has it been?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
sweetowen: Is it ever possible for a one night stand to blossom into a relationship though?


Anything is possible if you believe it to be true...

Sorry to sound cliche, but it's true from what I have observed and experienced...

Long live the gypsy!!!
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Jul 9, 2009 7:32 PM CST How long has it been?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
sultryash: nah one night stands .......never did and not interested now...dont do anything for me


Understood...wine thumbs up bouquet
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Jul 9, 2009 7:33 PM CST How long has it been?
tgwstw
tgwstwtgwstwCork, Ireland71 Threads 4 Polls 3,070 Posts
sweetowen: Is it ever possible for a one night stand to blossom into a relationship though?

Never happened to me.
Contrary to popular belief, I've never had a one night stand!
But from what I've heard, not many do progress onto a relationship after one night.
There are a few lucky ones that do apparently.

I have yet to encounter them.
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Jul 9, 2009 7:34 PM CST How long has it been?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
tgwstw: Ah well, great guy, we were seeing each other, just no pizzazz.
Is that even a word?!
I probably made it up, but you get me.


Pizzazz is thrown around in the States...

I had the same problem with my recent ex...everything was there but the connection and that oh yeah babyee....PIZZAZZ
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Jul 9, 2009 7:36 PM CST How long has it been?
tgwstw
tgwstwtgwstwCork, Ireland71 Threads 4 Polls 3,070 Posts
StressFree: Pizzazz is thrown around in the States...

I had the same problem with my recent ex...everything was there but the connection and that oh yeah babyee....PIZZAZZ


Well the fire was on but the flames were........ few and far between.

That's the only way I can explain it.
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Jul 9, 2009 7:36 PM CST How long has it been?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
tgwstw: Never happened to me.
Contrary to popular belief, I've never had a one night stand!
But from what I've heard, not many do progress onto a relationship after one night.
There are a few lucky ones that do apparently.

I have yet to encounter them.


Second night stands have led to some good times...

I've had a one night stand with a redhead back in 94 in N.Carolina...I still believe she was a potential soulmate..but that damn distance after the baseball season when I went back to California.

But yes, there was love with a one-night-stand...
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Jul 9, 2009 7:37 PM CST How long has it been?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
tgwstw: Well the fire was on but the flames were........ few and far between.

That's the only way I can explain it.



False fires for the moment...
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Jul 9, 2009 7:38 PM CST How long has it been?
tgwstw
tgwstwtgwstwCork, Ireland71 Threads 4 Polls 3,070 Posts
StressFree: Second night stands have led to some good times...

I've had a one night stand with a redhead back in 94 in N.Carolina...I still believe she was a potential soulmate..but that damn distance after the baseball season when I went back to California.

But yes, there was love with a one-night-stand...

Ah I have done a few second nighters myself.
Last relationship was a second nighter, lasted 2 years.

I think it varies depending on the individuals involved.

There are no set rules.
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Jul 9, 2009 7:40 PM CST How long has it been?
USThumper
USThumperUSThumperMexico, New York USA4 Threads 3,957 Posts
sweetowen: I'm asking because the thought's been on MY mind lately.

Lets do one and seebouquet
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Jul 9, 2009 7:42 PM CST How long has it been?
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados36 Threads 3,203 Posts
there are so many things that constitutes a "connection" for me it has to be all there........the laughter, humor,affection,chemistry,attraction(tangible and intangible),SMARTS,trust and just that tingly feeling of feeling like you have known that person for so long yet only after a short time..........the comfort, being able to be yourself......
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Jul 9, 2009 7:42 PM CST How long has it been?
angelface123
angelface123angelface123somewhere, Arkansas USA3 Threads 350 Posts
Well it's been 6 1/2 months...By my choice. conversing cool angel
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Jul 9, 2009 7:43 PM CST How long has it been?
nfowler
nfowlernfowlernowhere, Washington USA89 Threads 2,634 Posts
sweetowen: Is it ever possible for a one night stand to blossom into a relationship though?
For you Sweet, I would make every effort to make a onenight stand turn into a relationship...but just for you
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Jul 9, 2009 7:43 PM CST How long has it been?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
StressFree: Second night stands have led to some good times...

I've had a one night stand with a redhead back in 94 in N.Carolina...I still believe she was a potential soulmate..but that damn distance after the baseball season when I went back to California.

But yes, there was love with a one-night-stand...


I guess this would be classified more as a second-nighter. We'd talked several times & went out on a date. But the guy really seems to like me & has been there for me through thick & thin, cheering me up & making me laugh & just carrying me through a bunch of BS. He really cares. I'm just wondering if something can actually come out of it. The odds usually dictate against such a thing.
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Jul 9, 2009 7:46 PM CST How long has it been?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
nfowler: For you Sweet, I would make every effort to make a onenight stand turn into a relationship...but just for you


blushing blushing
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Jul 9, 2009 7:48 PM CST How long has it been?
sassy49senior
sassy49seniorsassy49seniorItty Bitty, Nebraska USA274 Threads 4,632 Posts
Well here I am, old fashined Sassy. wink I flirt like crazy
on here and a couple of those I have feelings for. But in
real life the flirting is for my man. Also, I can't and have
not slept with any man that I was not deeply involved with.
yay hug
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Jul 9, 2009 8:03 PM CST How long has it been?
phusion09
phusion09phusion09Dublin, Ireland22 Threads 11 Polls 323 Posts
eh relationship wise Crimbo gone, randomly a couple of weeks ago,
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Jul 9, 2009 8:04 PM CST How long has it been?
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
It has been over six months.... Wow! I had to think about it.
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Jul 9, 2009 8:05 PM CST How long has it been?
tgwstw
tgwstwtgwstwCork, Ireland71 Threads 4 Polls 3,070 Posts
To be honest, I'd rather go without than do the hollow humping thing.
No interest.
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Jul 9, 2009 8:06 PM CST How long has it been?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
tgwstw: To be honest, I'd rather go without than do the hollow humping thing.
No interest.


Sureroll eyes
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Jul 9, 2009 8:08 PM CST How long has it been?
tgwstw
tgwstwtgwstwCork, Ireland71 Threads 4 Polls 3,070 Posts
StressFree: Sure

I'd shoot from the hip, I assure you.
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Jul 9, 2009 8:13 PM CST How long has it been?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
tgwstw: I'd shoot from the hip, I assure you.


Disarm!!!!
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Jul 9, 2009 8:18 PM CST How long has it been?
tgwstw
tgwstwtgwstwCork, Ireland71 Threads 4 Polls 3,070 Posts
nfowler: who gets the key?

Ah we'll go to some country club, throw it in a bowl, see whatever random dude fishes it out.
Good a way as any.
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Jul 9, 2009 8:20 PM CST How long has it been?
nfowler
nfowlernfowlernowhere, Washington USA89 Threads 2,634 Posts
tgwstw: Ah we'll go to some country club, throw it in a bowl, see whatever random dude fishes it out.
Good a way as any.
that key maybe willed to family for generations...your belt would become a legacy
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