Does not really bother me, but then again I can use some intimate touches. Way over two months as far as an emotional connection is concerned.I still believe in the ways of magic...that sentimental wind shall come by sooner or later.
I do wonder how long long this drought will last at times. The physical part is not the issue...the connection part is the issue.
sultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados3,203 posts
StressFree: Two months here...
Does not really bother me, but then again I can use some intimate touches. Way over two months as far as an emotional connection is concerned.I still believe in the ways of magic...that sentimental wind shall come by sooner or later.
I do wonder how long long this drought will last at times. The physical part is not the issue...the connection part is the issue.
tell me about it...........but its worth the wait............been years for me but if the connection is not there the physical part is just not worth it anyways.JMO
It's been awhile,needing to whet my whistle. However,I'm patient enough to know that I'm worth the wait as I'm sure he is.
StressFree: Two months here...
Does not really bother me, but then again I can use some intimate touches. Way over two months as far as an emotional connection is concerned.I still believe in the ways of magic...that sentimental wind shall come by sooner or later.
I do wonder how long long this drought will last at times. The physical part is not the issue...the connection part is the issue.
sultryash: tell me about it...........but its worth the wait............been years for me but if the connection is not there the physical part is just not worth it anyways.JMO
I concur...
But I am all for one night stands...takes the edge off momentarily....
sweetowen: Is it ever possible for a one night stand to blossom into a relationship though?
Never happened to me. Contrary to popular belief, I've never had a one night stand! But from what I've heard, not many do progress onto a relationship after one night. There are a few lucky ones that do apparently.
tgwstw: Never happened to me. Contrary to popular belief, I've never had a one night stand! But from what I've heard, not many do progress onto a relationship after one night. There are a few lucky ones that do apparently.
I have yet to encounter them.
Second night stands have led to some good times...
I've had a one night stand with a redhead back in 94 in N.Carolina...I still believe she was a potential soulmate..but that damn distance after the baseball season when I went back to California.
StressFree: Second night stands have led to some good times...
I've had a one night stand with a redhead back in 94 in N.Carolina...I still believe she was a potential soulmate..but that damn distance after the baseball season when I went back to California.
But yes, there was love with a one-night-stand...
Ah I have done a few second nighters myself. Last relationship was a second nighter, lasted 2 years.
I think it varies depending on the individuals involved.
sultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados3,203 posts
there are so many things that constitutes a "connection" for me it has to be all there........the laughter, humor,affection,chemistry,attraction(tangible and intangible),SMARTS,trust and just that tingly feeling of feeling like you have known that person for so long yet only after a short time..........the comfort, being able to be yourself......
StressFree: Second night stands have led to some good times...
I've had a one night stand with a redhead back in 94 in N.Carolina...I still believe she was a potential soulmate..but that damn distance after the baseball season when I went back to California.
But yes, there was love with a one-night-stand...
I guess this would be classified more as a second-nighter. We'd talked several times & went out on a date. But the guy really seems to like me & has been there for me through thick & thin, cheering me up & making me laugh & just carrying me through a bunch of BS. He really cares. I'm just wondering if something can actually come out of it. The odds usually dictate against such a thing.
Well here I am, old fashined Sassy. I flirt like crazy on here and a couple of those I have feelings for. But in real life the flirting is for my man. Also, I can't and have not slept with any man that I was not deeply involved with.
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Does not really bother me, but then again I can use some intimate touches. Way over two months as far as an emotional connection is concerned.I still believe in the ways of magic...that sentimental wind shall come by sooner or later.
I do wonder how long long this drought will last at times. The physical part is not the issue...the connection part is the issue.