Am I free?

by Amendashenyang, Liaoning, China

May 2010 4,489 Views 7 Comments

Imarried in 1994 and divorced in 2009. I'm free totally and my character make me that nobody can control me unless I like to be together with him....and till now the man still not appear....(sigh)

So...I don't know why I post this...maybe always have a feeling that somebody don't believe me...it's okay...I remember there is a thread in the forum "Don't hurry love"....one can't live without air and water but never heard: nobody can live without love....love is "luxury"maybe in the world nowadays plus I have very strong self control....

Thanks for reading!

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michaellas•Apr 22, 2018•s luis, Beja Portugal

you are rigth, love is not easy to handle,

online today!

robplum•Apr 22, 2011•Ensay, Victoria Australia

I believe happiness is found within by developing our mind to think first for others, as long as we are benefiting others there is peace within our minds.
Love, i think is developed out of self interest and therefore brings just more and more unhappiness. Born alone we will die alone, at death time its our thought at that time, that shapes the next moment whether in the right now, or in future experience is same.
I hope you find lots of happiness Amenda

lipsee•Apr 16, 2011•London, Greater London, England UK

Amenda ,,A person can survive without love,but I think for a full life ,a person needs a loving relationship,,,

trail1•Apr 16, 2011•FORT CAMPBELL, Kentucky USA

MAYBE YOUR JUST NOT LOOKING IN THE RIGHT PLACES. DO YOU GET OUT OF THE HOUSE OFTEN. WHAT DO YOU DO WITH YOUR SPARE TIME WHEN IT'S FREE? TRY ENJOYING MORE OUTDOOR ACTIVITIES WHERE YOUR MR. RIGHT MAY BE AT. CARNIVALS, HOMETOWN EVENTS, SHOPPING, CHURCH, ETC...I HOPE I WAS OF HELP.

knitting•Jan 14, 2011•Macedonia, Macedonia

Welcome to the club, the self control is a good thing but sometimes it's the worst enemy of the need to BE FREE, really free. People around you see you as the "character" and you scare them off, well she's not the party girl.And yes love is "luxury" nowadays, who knows maybe on day we'll have the right currency to afford it.

AmendaOP•Jul 3, 2010•shenyang, Liaoning China

Thanks for your kind comment.....normally I'm a happy person...every one has upset time....but after sleep for a night, I'll forget those bad things quickly....I feel we should really forget those worthless thing disgusting things as soon as possible or that will upset you all the time...

so now I'm happy,

Have you seen my big mouth open loudly laughing?

Thank you again!

Wanderer69•Jul 2, 2010•Narrabri, New South Wales Australia

Hi Amanda
Love is not a luxury...
It a basic necesity for a fulfilled life!!!
This does not mean romance but acceptance and the need to feel wanted
You are a Gemini and when a Gemini starts feeling down you know there has been a lot of hurt.
I am going to waste a couple of words here because you will already know......Keep Smiling Girl!!!
An unhappy person is never attractive...
Warm Regards

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