ideal love!

The deepest , most heart breaking damage you can do to your relationship will most likely occur in the thick of conflict, if neither of you put your foot on the brakes when your pride is strongest, your anger is hottest,  most selfish and judgmental, your words contain the most venom, perfect timing to make the worst decisions.

 Shouldn’t the ideal love reminds you that your relationship is too valuable to allow it to destroy itself, that your love for your partner is more important than whatever you’re actually arguing about.

 Ideally it should helps you install airbags and set up certain rules as to keep the argument as clean as possible, like, never mention separation, avoid bring up old unrelated scenes from the past, avoiding any physical contact in a harmful way,  never to consider failure for an option.

 Disagreeing is a part of  life but it should be done with dignity, it should result in building a bridge and not destroying one. Remember , love is not a fight, but it is always worth fighting for!