Well I actually got sick of this site so probably why I haven't been on here for yonks...hehe... So I decided to try and meet someone a different way.... so off to the bars I went maybe like once a fortnight, didn't really meet anyone in particular just met a lot of people who were out for enjoyment and out for the night. Was quite interesting though cos I did meet a few men but they just weren't my type. Then on saturday just gone I met this guy called Bill a black american nerdy looking guy.... He was the nicest man I've ever met, he stayed by my side the whole night and made sure I had a good time... at the end of the night I got tired and wanted to go home.... he got my number off me but I forgot to ask him for his.... that was like last weekend... hmm haven't heard from him yet!! What do you reckon... do you think he'll call or should I just forget about it....hmm
Have written anything for a while so.. here goes...
On the first day of this year a neice in law died she was only 22 still yet to find out what really happened.. She was a beautiful girl.
It was not a good start to the year.. not for me anyway.. you see on the second day of every year its the anniversary of my sister's death. She died in 2007, breast cancer / respiratory.. so her not being around still gets me down at the start of the year.
To top it all off my daughter tells me her and her little family are moving out now.. That was the breaking point for me my tears just flowed... wth.. what sort of start to the year is this??
So haven't been wanting to see or hang with friends.. or family for that matter.. Guess I'll be like this for the rest of the week..
22 December 2006 went out to a bar supposed to meet up with my ex who was coming from his work function was at club all night my ex didn't show up, had drinks left on my table cos I had ordered for my ex & his mates. I offered them to these two guys at another table. I end up dropping these guys off to their houses and go home.
Couple of days later I get a call from Paul who asked as a payback for how generous I was to him and his friend the other night he if he could come over with his brother and bring a box or bottle of whatever for me, they came over that night they drink with my ex. I get introduced to the brother who is a cop!! During the drink up my ex blurts out that he is gay, which becomes the drinking subject for the night... And it also peaks the cop guys interest in me (i'll call him Lance)
I'm at work the texting begins with Lance who I still don't know much about So he wants to know my life story so I tell him. We carry on the text betweeb 26 December till 31 December 2006.
On New Years day we get a call from Lance who wants us to come have NYs dinner with them.... this is the first time I find out he actually has a wife and kids my ex and I turn up to his house and he introduces me to his wife as a "long time friend" wtf!!!! they had invited another couple who were their friends and we all had a pretty good night eating, drinking and just being merry. End of that day
After this my ex and I begin socialising ALOT with Lance and sometimes his brother Paul and the friends we met.... sometimes we would entertain sometimes our new found friends would entertain all this time I noticed Lance becoming more and more agressive especially towards my ex....
So what did Lance get up to
1 One day he turns up in full uniform and the police car and asks me if he can talk to me.... So I do. Then I get paranoid sitting in the cop car cos of the neighbours... So I ask him to leave.
2. Another day.. my ex comes home with a very ihnteresting story and tells me that a cop turned up and spoke with the General Manager!!!!! at his job and asks for him.... Of course the Manager becomes concerned and asks if my ex has done anything wrong and the cop says no I just need to speak with him... Guess who the cop was??? My ex was not happy to see him that day I can tell you now....
3. I went clubbing with some friends at the time I was still texting him and got abandoned by my friends who found guys and left me on my own in town. So trying to call someone to come get me everybody was either sleeping, busy or just not answering their fones or my texts. So I text him and asked for help the call came straight away and he asked where I was I told him where he said give me half an hour I will do a job and come pick you up thinking he wasn't not working that day half an hour later he turns up in the cop car and in uniform. So this is my story about a hunky looking great physically fit and very handsome guy who had a fascination with me and tried to show it in every way he could.... but because he had a wife and two children I could not bring myself to go there with him... So a few months later I had to end the friendship I told him we just weren't suited for each other and asked him not to call, text, or email me anymore as I would not respond.... Had a few more texts of him pleading me to stay in his life... But you know what I really did not want to be the "other woman" so I did not respond... Haven't heard from him since cos my address, phone, cell and email have all changed. Just a little bit of recklessness on my part too. Its great to have a guy thats so interested in you not so great if hes married!!!
So ummmm just wondering how Admin of C.S. or anyone else for all that matter feel of the pics being verified I.E by asking member to send proof that they are real.... i.e. by way of license, passport, birth certifcate etc where people need to take a close up with their ID and only Admin would view that photo......
Only say this cos honestly I'm getting really really really tired of picking up the fake people behind the pics.
Come on guys play fair......yes I'm talking to you scammers whether you be male or female
Cos you know what my saying to you people is "catch me if you can"
Yeah so if you've read my previous blog.... You would probably know that I have just recently come out of a 21 year marriage... So my new found freedom has been absolutely wonderful..... To not have to answer to ANYONE anymore is the greatest feeling ever. So had a bit of a think and decided that if I do start dating again whether it be online or offline I would want to give it at least a year. Even come up with my own list of guys I would NEVER date...lol
1 Losers
2 Posers
3 Users
4 Fakes
5 Wanna be controllers
6 A guy with anger management probs
7 A guy who is already declaring their undying love for me in the first email even...wtf!!!!
8 A guy who is too religious....no thanks!! Been there done that and I ain't doing that again.
Probably way more to be added to this list but can't think of any at the moment.... Hehehe......just my own views.
No I would never ever want to date another samoan for as long as I live..... I know this sounds offensive but I have my own reasons for this. Cos with samoans it seems the faster you earn money the faster the "faalavelaves" come e.g. weddings , funerals, regisration of land in islands, sending money to the family high chief, sending a container filled with furniture..... Actually my mind boggles at the amount of money I have had to give over the years and no I ain't giving no one any more money gosh I'm not even that rich..... So no offence to any other "Sa" guys out there but this is my choice and this is what I decided. Damn it I don't even have samoan blood in me!!!
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