I post in a thread on the forum and the thread dies
What's the use of talking to people when no one answers.
It's like being at a party where everyone pretends you're not there.
I usually have a pretty high opinion of myself and I think I'm a hard working person who is worthy of finding friends and a special man.
But this online dating has made me feel bad. Whatever the reason (age, location) I have found that after four years on here, I've found that I don't feel worthy.
At this point, I've given up on finding someone to date.
And that's OK
But if the odds of finding someone to date online are so small, is it good for anyone?
And then there are the scammers, but that's another story
Anyhow, be aware, ladies, that the odds of meeting someone in person here are very small.
And if it starts to make you feel bad, you're not alone!
"I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain."
~Bene Gesserit Litany Against Fear~
From Frank Herbert's "Dune"
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