arabella Blog Comments (30)

Silence

Ah, thank you, guys

Your replies made me feel so much better!!!

RE: Please critique and/or improve my letter to renter

Make it shorter and more professional.

Most people's eyes glaze over after three paragraphs.

The question should be shorter and to the point, not folksy. Enough with the "we're going to be friends".

RE: No more excitment

Happens to all of us here, Honey

Don't waste your time or your hopes of meeting someone here

RE: Difficulties getting to know people after 35.

Oh come on!!!

You're 39 and complaining already???

RE: Lyn

Wow, sounds like you found somebody

RE: so where are all the gorgeous 50+ ladies

Nope, I've raised enough children and don't need another!

RE: older men

Older men have jobs!

RE: too old

Well, if you're too old, so am I

You're right, people our age don't get much action. But I've found that this is a good place to make friends.

RE: catching up

Dorielle, my thoughts are with you.

Even though we have never met, your life has touched mine.

I wish I could give you the miracle you so richly deserve.

But I want you to know how much I admire your strength and spirit!

RE: CHANGES

Good for you!

Nothing like exercise to make your mood lighter...endorphins work miracles!!!

I hope your lady sees how you are making an effort!!

RE: LATE NITE BLUES

Chin up.....

RE: hey

or what

RE: everything changes....

Glad you're back and doing well.

RE: To Bad This Was Not Ment T Be A True Statment

"Alas, poor Yorick!
I knew him, Horatio,
a fellow of infinite jest,
of most excellent fancy."

~Hamlet~

RE: Oh my !

Men looking????

RE: DON"T BE RUDE tell them your no longer interested.

Par for the course in online dating

People do that because they can......

RE: Hair today...gone tomorrow!

Wow

When your hair grows back, I wonder what color it will be?


I remember my son on steriods after he was born and still in the hospital.

He looked like he had little chipmunk cheeks


Rock On, D.!!!

RE: Wow - I can post!

Good for you!

Every man needs a job...a mission...a moment to be the knight on a horse charging the windwill

RE: Forward motion

I'm so glad to see your thoughts turn positive.

Be UNSINKABLE

RE: Today's thoughts

Dark humour is the only way...if I don't laugh about the unthinkable misfortunes, I drown in my own tears.

RE: women who enjoy fishing wanted

Hey James..I love to go fishing, but you re too far away

I hope you find someone local

RE: Skeptikos

Get sober.



No alcohol - doesn't do well with prescription drugs.

Nobody (especially me) says any change is easy.

It's the toughest thing you'll ever do.


And aloneness?

Hey, living alone is GREAT!!!!

RE: ''I Am going to stop searching''

I have found that the men my age are looking for younger women.

And I don't want to date a man who is too much younger than me. Younger guys know nothing about things that I know and love from my past.

And yes, the dating sites are full of men looking for a free ride or worse.

Be glad you have you, because that's what counts!!!

RE: to all

The real people are on this site.

The cliques and the cruel people are here.

They masquarade as nice people, but sooner or later, they should their real personalities.

Those are the REAL people here.

RE: Truth Lies or Consequences

What a good story about "Liz"

I had a brother John.

He must have been wonderful, since my mother called for him on her deathbed.

The thing is, I'm an only child and John was never born. He was the miscarriage before I came along.

But when I feel insignificant, I remember that John could have been wonderful and I'm his replacement.

And I need to show him, wherever he is, that we are strong and can contribute something on this earth.

And in some strange way...we are family

RE: QUESTION FOR YOU ALL.

I'm really thrilled about who I am and where I am...really!

I have been so lucky to have so many life experiences.

Anything else is just icing on the cake from now on.

RE: Having ideas

A creative mind is a gift and sometimes a curse.

I hope you find joy in your work and satisfaction in what you create

RE: For the Sake of the Sound...

My new neighbor is a truck driver.

He brings his rig home every night. In the morning, he goes out and starts the truck, letting it warm up for a half an hour.

At first I was annoyed at the engine noise so early in the morning.

But now I hardly notice it, it's like an alarm clock and as familiar as morning coffee.

RE: bein me...

Now come on!!!

Aren't you still infamous deep in your soul?

RE: Earl & Shelia's Future Part #2

Earl & Sheila, I am so happy for you two. You have been real right from the start...both of you. And you have made the effort to connect, meet and keep your relationship alive. Kudos to you both!!