Dear girls.. Don't let your beauty make people fool you with fake loves, be smart enough to choose who's to love!
Seriously, from all of the holiday, new year is always be my favorite. Excited yet scared. Lots of self reflection. That's why I try to celebrate new year with many different ways. But one thing, it has to be a journey.
Last year I went to Gili Island in East part of Indonesia.Oh,paradise!I want to go back there again actually for this year but I prefer to go to Bali.If last year theme was to find out what I want in life, this upcoming new year the theme would be unleashing myself. I will graduate soon, will start my own life, so it's the gate to freedom! yeah!
I plan to go backpacking with friends to Kuta,Bali.New year, fire works, beach, and of course party!!!
Can't wait!
What's your new year plan?
There I say it
I love money but I'm not materialistic.
See the meaning of materialistic here :
" The theory or attitude that physical well-being and worldly possessions constitute the greatest good and highest value in life."
I love money so I treat it with respect. Like my lover.
I don't steal somebody's lover. So I won't steal somebody's money.
I love it and I earn it. I save it and spend it wisely.I know what I love, I know that money can't give me everything.It's not the highest value in life.
So, I think everybody should love money,no?
and for ladies,there is this good book to help us get the financial freedom and being really independent!
Anyway I read previous blog titled "No Money, No Honey" maybe if the girl know how to be financially independent then even though there is "No Money" there still gonna be "A Honey" haha
Related with my previous blog about quotes from Eat,Pray,Love
I have my mind occupied, thinking about the true meaning of soulmate.
I have four relationships in my whole life, I wouldn't call the two of them relationship though...
first relationship, he's my good friend, we have lots of things in common. really a lot. I said love in the night and ask for break up the next morning.I lost a very good friend because I mistaken comfort with love. (almost 3 years of friendship)
Second relationship, we met, we enjoy each other companion, and we had fun. Only short time, but no sadness and no regret. Just to clarify, all we did mostly just go to the cinema, eat dinner together, and hang out with friend in the cafe. So it's more like 'mate'. (2 months)
Third relationship, this is when all the pain begin. I would like say he's my 'first love'. I was so blind. I listened to everything he said..then learned that everything sweet he said once could never be kept. (1 year)
Fourth relationship, because I got burnt before, I tried not to keep my hope and expectation too high, I used my logic and lock up my feeling.However he exceed all of my expectation. But we want different things in life. And I decided to pursue my dream, not him. He met someone and I didn't fight for him. I don't deserve him.(8 months)
The broke up is still fresh, only two days ago. I made the decision but somehow I felt so scared that I have missed 'the one'. I continuously asked myself, "what if, what if he's my soulmate?"
Then I come to realization, that he is, and also the three previous guys. They all are my soulmate. I was happy and hurt by them. Quote my friend, Charmvarine from Thailand, said :
"Fortunately, I have to thanks for them. They made me even stronger, hotter, smarter, and more happy than before. I have more time for work, friends, family and myself. Right now it's time for me to enjoy my life."
I don't bother to find where is my soulmate. I already know what is soulmate. So love will find me again when it's time for me.
oh,and happy belated world vegan day!
Cheers,
"People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave. A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master..." — Elizabeth Gilbert (Eat, Pray, Love)
If you're a guy-post this as "My Kind of Girl"
If you're a girl-post this as "My Kind of Boy"
copy-paste this note to your own blank note. delete all previous answer and fill yours. publish n tag to your friend. find what kind of friend that you have
1. Good looking?
at least not too bad
2. Smart?
A must
3.Age?
older better
4. Height?
taller better
5. Sense of humor?
as long as it's not me the object of his humor
6. Piercing?
mmm,sounds cool :p
7. Accept you whole-heartedly?
up to him
8.Pink hair??
Pink hair only for my Barbie
9.Sensitive guy?
dun like it
10. Slender or plumpy?
must be fit
11. White,brown,dark?
white, brown, or maybe mocha :D
12.Short or long hair?
Mohaawwwk
13.Wood or metal?
O.o
14. Nice scent?
yep but not too much
15. Smoking?
i prefer no
16.Drinking?
thats his right
17. A guy-next-door type?
not that close
18.Mr.Muscle?
Yaaay! :)
19.Mr.pianist?
why not
20. Mr.Bassist / guitarist?
I like the bassist better!
21.Mr.Violinist?
mmm,perhaps not
22. Mr.singer?
yes pleasee
23. Vain?
*nod nod*
24. Glasses?
HOLLY CHERRY,yesss
25. With braces?
*nod*
26. Shy guy?
no
27.Rebel guy?
not really like it either
28. Active or passive?
Actively passive
29. Tight or bomb?
???
30.Singer or dancer?
stripper,wakakaka.Singer is preferable.
31. Stunner
okay
32. Hiphop
sounds cool
33.Earrings?
thats not bad
34. Mr/Ms count-my-ex-until you drop
do it yourself
35. Dimples?
would be lovely
36. Nerd?
whats wrong with it?
37. Mr/Ms love letter?
romanchikkku
38. player?
dont you dare
39. Flirt?
i can do it too
40. Poet?
maybe no
41. Serious?
*nod nod nod*
42.Crush in the campus?
prefer not to
43.Artist?
dun really like it
44. Religous?
better yes
45.Seducer?
give it a shoot
46. Computer games geek or internet freak
no one doesn't sit in front of computer and access internet nowdays, please *roll eyes*
47. Can speak 20languages?
Thats cool
48. Loyal or Faithfull
whats the diff?
49. Good kisser?
Errrr,yes please,haha
50. Love children?
Not a must
So,that's mine! WHt's yours??
Hola, it's 10.10.10 day!
What's your plan for today, is there anything special you wanna do?
My theme for today is : FREEDOM
I'm sick, trapped in the bed, but I'm free for all the ASSignments I have to do. I call it a little victory.
and I'm gonna spend my day watch Gossip Girls.Awesome
Does anybody here watch Glee?
I'm so excited with the season 2!
Charice Pampengco who casts as Sunshine Corazone is just amazing! :)
ah,and Telephone is my soundtrack for this week.
"I leave my head and my heart in the dance floor."
Yeaah :)
I was just curious and did little research about rate photos here. Comparing the top rated guys and girls. I found out that girls got more votes, so is it mean that guys like to vote more? haha. Just my current hypothesis!
Last night Mum watched this soap opera in TV while I was having dinner, seriously soap opera isn't my thing, too much drama involved, yuck, but there's a scene that drew my attention. It was about a woman had convo with his huby. She said to him like this :
"Today one of our customer's huby (she has a salon) came with another woman, then I realized something. There will always be women that love married men and they will try to steal the men away from their wives.Same goes with you. I can't stop a woman for falling for you. Somehow it's not her fault if she love you, we can't control a heart. But you are the one who can stop it. Because we have a commitment here. So please, if something like this happen with us in the future, don't hurt me and her. You have to choose one of us."
That's quite surprising thing to be found in a soap opera. Good signal from local movie industry,haha.
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