Enjoying the self....
Everytime I spend time on the threads....I am always amazed at the huge amount of people who seem scared of being on their own....
....it seems that a lot feel that fulfillment may only be achieved if the perfect 'love' can be found....and then the magic wand is going to strike and they live happily ever after...
...ah well...maybe Hollywood has had too much effect on the way we think...
...I am not saying falling in love with someone is a fad.....far from it....I count myself lucky to have been in love, fallen in love, and been loved in my life.....and each of those episodes of my past when it occurred remain warm and certainly pleasant memories in my mind...
...but life does not depend on having the other someone by your side...it may enhance it if it happens....but in the meantime life goes on.....and believe me....it is a very short trip....you wake up one morning...and find half your life is gone....
...so my point is....by all means keep all your options open...grab the chance if it happens to cross your path....but do not linger by the wayside waiting for it to do so...
...live your life to the full...do those things that you wish to do.....and now is the time......before it is too late....
...love yourself first...and be happy with what it gives you....the rest will happen on it's own...if it is meant to happen it will....
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...even at this moment in time....when not all is as smooth as one would like it to be....
....I am still amazed at the colours that are thrown my way...
...and still fin myself looking forward for what is yet to come...
...and not intending to change either...
I love the peace and independance of being alone..no rush, having a relationship just be like others and part of a couple is a recipe for disaster...just enjoy