One man's take on it
Are people ever going to satisfied? When one is not happy in a relationship or marriage, why does it always seem that there is no room for repairing or reconciliation? The decisions made are often to take the hard way or riskier venture. The feelings once had have vanished into thin air.Communication breaks down, and so does the honesty. Trust fades...It is my opinion that if each one of us takes a good long hard look at our selves we may find that we all are searching for true happiness and want the ability to love and be loved. We should learn to be happy within and it will show outward.
As some of you may know ,...the grass is not very green on either side.
So, i often ask, why do women think it's ok to rip men apart and shred his ego...make him feel so terribly worthless that he needs treatment to recover?
And the same for men...why must our goals be to conquer(at least some men)? All the while moving ahead planning and scheming the hunt for the next unwary prey and leaving her to a shattered dream.
I lost everything, and i do mean EVERYTHING. Not once but TWICE in my life to significant others who took vows before god and families. One lost interest in me and one couln't stop herself from giving up on our future plans together.
Each man (and woman's) journey thru life is truly a solitary one. Life can be altered in a split second. Forgive. Forgive. Forgive. Cherrish even the simplest moments and love as if they were indeed your last.
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When i said forgive , forgive , forgive...I meant that in the sense that if you hold resentments or grudges towards loved ones.....sorry for not clarifying.
In any case, you do make a good point and it's refreshing to see it. Often I say, ".....so on we go....." We can't be continually blaming. Although I'm finding forgiveness to be a multi-layered endeavor and in some cases taking years to work through. But it's my job to make myself healthy.
And, to be sure, I was not yelling at you. I saw a soapbox on the floor and I climbed up on it. I've since put it away - to possibly be used later.
You are a good cuddlebear.