sassie431 Blog Comments (27)

RE: WELL IT FINALLY HAPPENED TO ME

I would just considered where it came from then moved on. You are a beautiful women... and have nothing to hide..... I think you did the right thing not to remark to him on this I think it may hurt him more not to get a reaction.... now you can email me the name of this person ... no rules broken .... smiles.... Thank you




Mary

RE: I am a Mistake

When you say and mean it STOP!!!!!!! Remember the word NO and REMEMBER YOU ARE IMPORTANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Remember you allow this to happen to you... YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN STOP IT>>>>>>>>Stay NO MORE>>>>>>THEN HANG UP< WALK AWAY>>>> LEAVE HIM TO WALLOW IN HIS OWN POO........


Don't allow him to control you, You are in control of yourself......



YOU ARE WORTH EACH DAY YOU WAKE UP< YOU ARE WORTH EACH BREATH YOU TAKE>>>> YOU ARE WORTH LOVE AND HAPPINESS>>>>


SO TAKE IT IN YOUR OWN HANDS AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT......


I have been there.... I won't go there again....



This is said with love....


Mary

RE: If you have met someone in person on "SinglesNet"

Is this singlesnet.com < I thought it was connecting singles....

NO Never met anyone from here.... I wonder why?

Lets see I get emails and phone calls but they suddenly stop...

lol

Have a great day

RE: Is this how its going to be?

I agree with nomindgames .... Its hard to get a divorce and then it is harder to start dating ... take your time and get to know you first. I was married 31 years 5 of those years we were seperated even then I believe in my heart that things would change and we would get back together. Its now been 6 years and 1 year divorced... and I still have problems. I loved my x very much, I would have done anything for him. But along the way we grew apart.

I started seeing people 6 months after I left, then realized that I needed to find me in all the mess that was there. I did and I am happy with someone or without someone. Friends run when they see people in pain.
I don't know about friends, because I was married and had no friends it was just me, my children, and my x husband. I put my whole life into loving my family and never had time for me or any friends.


Take care and I am sure that you will find what you seek...


Mary

RE: A question of Selfishness

To be unselfish is to be closed mouth about the things you have done in your life. This is between you and the higher power...... So to tell you any different would be selfish, but I believe you wrote this for your own benefit... in someway....am I correct..?

RE: A question of religion kind of

I heard that your whole life flashes in your mind just befoe death, but actually the soul goes into a sleep waits for judgement day and raises once again to a new body and hopefully you go to heaven. If not then you burn in hell the rest of your days. hummmm reminds me of the time...lol

But in reality... you die and your soul goes to another place . You do not stay in the body... You are not taken straigt to heaven just in a holding place tell the end..... and then again, is death the end........something to think about....

RE: Another thrilling weekend...

I am not sure if my life is any better, so I may not be able to say anything worth wild. I do know that it can get a bit boring if you are not doing something. Maybe if you went out, get around more people.



Mary

RE: In the shadows

Each word has many meanings.... To chat here is harder then in person somethings that are said might not be taken the way one would like them to. Misunderstandings will be there no matter what..... Never try to read between lines.. It sometimes doesn't pay.... come back into the forums many miss you there.....

For the others they left the forums becaue they wanted to... no one ran them off.


Remember when we get into moods, we tend to show it in our writings. Maybe not realizing it but we do. Each thread , each post shows us how one feels at the moment in the writing.......


The power of ones mind..... With ones words.... its amazing.....

RE: Life

You can write about it, it does help to get it out even if its writing. I have a blog on yahoo I write alot of stuff in. I take my all my feelings and put there.



Mary

RE: One man's take on it

True words here Its just easier to give up then to fix the problem. We all have had love at some point in our lifes we just didn't keep the home fires burning. Mistakes which sometimes I regret but there was more to it then meets the eye.

RE: Funkey mood

You have alot of reason to be in a funky mood. It will pass I know this because I get into them also and no its not hormones. My brother passed away 2 years ago aug 18th, When I dream about him he is warning me of something. I still have unfinished crying to do. I went thur the mad part, that lasted a year, then I went thur not feeling nothing. The last week I have been crying alot more. I miss him so much.... So I do understand what you are going thur... You take care and just let it out... It soon will pass...


Mary

RE: romance long distance

I have that problem but he is 5000 miles away. We talk on yahoo when he can come on but it is very hard. The distance keeps us away from each other. He is unhappy so I am guessing this isn't going to last much longer.
The only thing to do is still be friends I guess.
I hope you find someway.....Let me know

Mary

RE: Only ask me this... do you love me?

Yes I love you
I will always love you
You are my heart....

RE: Just want to introduce myself

Welcome to CS
Have fun....


Mary

RE: Me In You

I love to read your writings. Each one tells a story. Please keep writing.

Mary

RE: That One Person....

grieve the loss, then put them in a special place and move on.

RE: A Flower Is Nature's Kiss

Beautiful


Mary

RE: I met a girl here

If she is hiding her profile or she has deleted it would tell me that she was not interested in the same way.

Some people don't know how to tell someone that they are not into them. Maybe they fear love alot run away from the word love. I don't want to be harsh, but find someone else.

Mary

RE: alone

Maybe in you're search you forgot to look in front of you. We sometimes get so caught up in the seeking we don't see.
Ask God he will send you you're angel.


Mary

RE: Love

Its better to be alone but this is not a true statement. For I am not truly alone I have me.


When true love meets you, you will feel it from your toes to the top of your head. You will be fly high in the clouds and laughter is a song. The music that will play is the heart beats of two that have became one.

Never settle to fill a emptiness within you.


Mary

Trust

I made a mistake and this time learned from it. I am staying clear of anything that looks married or has a commitment....lol
I am sorry for what you have been though its not fun. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. But I don't hang on to someone or something I never had ..
Thank you
mary

RE: Kryie

congrats, I hope everything works out for you.


I will be cheering you on.

RE: 13 phrases on the 13th! Which one is your favorite

All of them......

RE: Introduction!

You will find someone. You seem to be a very nice young man... Good luck

Mary

RE: online dating

It depends on the people and what they want. It can be a good thing if you get the right person. But who knows if these people are lying. I myself have dated offline for a while. I have found mostly married men or ones that have gfs are around and get in touch with me. I must have a sign on my head stateing I am stupid.

I think in honesty you can find someone here. If both are honest, and upfront on what they want from a relationship. Searching for the same things, but you do have to keep a eye on some.

Mary

RE: WARRNING - This is a little depressing - it’s all

Alot of times we hide the fear, the anger, the surpise...
3 weeks ago a young man of the age of 22 was shot and killed in my front yard. The time was 1:00 in the morning, I was awoke by the gun shots, I counted each one while I was calling the police. He was shot 3 times, once in the chest, once in the head and once in the neck.
There isn't never any reason to take a life.
I felt nothing, no emotion that night. I did know the young man. He was a friend of my sons. I saw him laying there lifeless. Just a shell was left of this man.
I started feeling the effects of this a week later, being afraid this was going to happen again. I could still here the gun shots. I did cry.......I think its a natural feeling one goes thur, to shut out anything bad....


Mary

RE: Why is it women always talk about honesty.....

I don't have anything to say , but sorry... I know how it feels to be lied to. Just pick yourself up and don't think everyone else is the same. I don't even believe she is worth the print..... but who am I? lol