Mr. Needy
I think I should make blogs about what men should not do.Well like the story starts I met a guy and everything was great. We would talk on the phone and write to each other. We lost communication for a while and three weeks ago he called me. It was nice talking to him but we were on the phone for 2 hours!! The next day he called also. We didn't spend that much time talking but then in the morning at 7 am I had a missing call from him and a voice mail....jessh Well he kept calling and I started ignoring the calls, telling him I was busy (most of the times I was anyways), or that I was about to do something.
Here's the thing, I need my time, I can't be on the phone all day. I got things to do. Being polite, the times I did pick up the phone I told him so. Well apparently this guy didn't get it. I hate talking on the phone, if I can spend 5 minutes and then hang up, thats great. But Mr. Needy thought I wanted to have a cellphone attached to my head.
He called me one day while I was working. I told him I would call him back, and before I said anything else he hang up on me. Rude Much. Well I called him, he didn't pick it up so I left him a very beautiful message saying how rude he was and to not bother calling me ever again.
Ring Ring goes the phone every day, and yeah its Mr. Needy, I just look at the phone and walk away. This is a waste of my time.
Lesson #1 Don't harass us with phone calls. It sends the Needy, has issues, high maintenance signal to our brains.
Love ya CS Friends