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Sometimes I wonder if I have missed my one true ca

You know sometimes I wonder where I am going in life..I have a good job,the best parents anybody could ever ask for and great friends.But now that I am 40 I'm beginning to wonder if I will ever find my soulmate.Lord knows I have had chances in the past but being a very shy person I would always get cold feet whenever I would get near someone or an opportunity would present itself. I would not have the guts to ask because I was always so afraid of rejection.It also irks me to see other younger couples holding hands, kissing,embracing,etc and I ask myself ''why me'' because I feel I have a lot to offer a woman if given the chance.I really don't know which way to turn now.Do I continue with online dating sending out messages and ''hoping for the best'' or should I start frequenting bars?Most of my family and friends don't have any connections or single friends they could introduce me to.Sometimes I think it's just not fair the way certain people like myself are ignored while the others ''get the prize.''
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Baby_Monkey
Baby_Monkey●Naguabo, Puerto Rico
Feb 20, 2010●22 Blogs●48 Comments
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Well you do know there are more places to meet women than bars do ya?

I suggest keep meeting people online and outside of the internet too. You have so many options for meeting women. Park, Mall, bookstore, on the beach...anywhere.

I also suggest that you consider options if you never find the right one. I don't mean this in any bad way. But do consider if you don't meet her, what will you do with your life. I've seen people that never meet the love of their life, so is better to have a strong relationship with yourself, enjoy and love yourself.

Yes at times it does get lonely but you have to make the best of the things you got. And who knows, maybe when you are not looking at all, you will find her.

I hope I did help a bit! Take care and good luck! bouquet
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stacylynn
stacylynn●nashville, Tennessee USA
Feb 21, 2010●3 Blogs
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i dont mater what ur age is if love is there it will find u and it will happen when u lest wont it s dont look for her she find u via the net or off the net so keep ur head up and u fnd ur true love and when i was looken for love it was not happen when i was not looking for it come to me
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sohailmm
sohailmm●Turku, Western Finland Finland
Feb 22, 2010●1 Blogs●6 Comments
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buddy ,, my experience is that best place to get some thing going is work ,, just be friendly with them and if u see some good sign ,,may be go ahead ,, i am also kind of same as u ,, but mostly girls ask me , someone the girls i like dont like me .so I always keep waiting for the special girl ,,i dont know i m doing the right thing or not but anyway thats other thing .


But the down side of work dating is that u got to see her everyday if the things don't go as planned confused
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sanfranguy
sanfranguy●san francisco, California USA
Feb 22, 2010●102 Comments
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Dude, lets look at the facts. You are 40, shy, afraid of rejection. And you dont want to be 50, shy, afraid of rejection........man you got to adjust your approach a little. OK we're not talking about personality transplant here.....just take a risk....what's the worst that can happen?
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