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How much do looks matter to you?

I am a woman of more than a few extra pounds and when I meet a new guy he always says I am not his type after all. I have joined a gym & also have been on Weight Watchers since October. I have been told by my friends that i carry the weight well even though i am trying to lose it. i am begining to lose confidence in all men. is there anyone out there who can change my mind?

dunno innocent frustrated
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tink42
tink42●eaton rapids, Michigan USA
Sep 6, 2007
#1
i am at the other end of the scale(102lbs. &5'1"). i am also new to dating after being married for 25yrs. im afraid i wont find anyone who likes a petite flat chested woman.crying crying
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luvs2sing
luvs2singOP●Columbus, Ohio USA
Sep 6, 2007●3 Comments
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in response to Tollen. i have gone out with heavyset men and they too are looking for the "model" type. i dont judge on appearances but like to get to know someone first. i have met so many superficial men that i have not gotten the chance.
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Beaches07
Beaches07●Bristol, Connecticut USA
Sep 7, 2007●2 Blogs
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Hey Luvs, Dont loose the weight FOR him, do it for you...You will find someone who loves you the way you are for the inside, do not ever settle for less. If you have to change for any man, then he does not love you for you...You are beautiful just the way you are....and it is his or their loss for not taking the time to learn that on their own.
I hope this helps

Free2bm = free to be me !!!!!!!yay
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stedaman
stedaman●gory, Wexford Ireland
Sep 7, 2007●3 Comments
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i dont judge any 1 by there size or looks i think personalaty is wat counts i was always told never 2 judge a book by its cover
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luvs2sing
luvs2singOP●Columbus, Ohio USA
Sep 7, 2007●3 Comments
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thanks everyone! you all gave me such good advice. & beaches thnx. i was on W.W . before this so i am losing it for me. i just wonder how many of those who turned me down would still do so after seing the new me. hmmm?

steppin, i know it will happen when i least expect it i just get tired of being alone.





PS lost over 45 lbs since October & countiingcheering
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luvs2sing
luvs2singOP●Columbus, Ohio USA
Sep 7, 2007●3 Comments
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thanks everyone! you all gave me such good advice. & beaches thnx. i was on W.W . before this so i am losing it for me. i just wonder how many of those who turned me down would still do so after seing the new me. hmmm?

steppin, i know it will happen when i least expect it i just get tired of being alone.

steadman you are a true gentleman

PS lost over 45lbs since October




cheering
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hankharlow
hankharlow●Union, New Jersey USA
Apr 13, 2010●131 Comments
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Personality 40%

Trust 30%

Physical
Attraction 30%

If a girl does not meet the first two requirements no matter how attractive she is we will never become a couple.

Beauty is only skin deep.

People who are overweight have to do everything in their power to make themselves presentable.

Keeping the weight off once you have lost it is much more difficult than starting the diet process in the first place.

Good grooming habits are necessary too.

Ability to carry a conversation helps too.

Having a driver's license is a big +
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