younger men/older women

I don't know what the attraction is for younger men but I am thankful for it. I found the love of my life!!!! He is 11 years younger than me and we are getting married in May of 2008. I am happier than I have ever been in my life. Maybe they just want someone who is more centered and settled. Like most things though age doesn't make a real difference in that area..

I say good for you! Why is it ok for just older men to have younger women but not the other way around. My ex-husband was 20 years older then I and we are still great friends. If it feels right and it works for you then by all means have a great time. Don't listen to stupid people throwing their bad judgements.

Ok I read what you said wrong Johnnyboy sorry!!

I am glad that I have the appeal for a younger man to look my way.
I have had only younger men in my life, and they help to keep me young feeling and fit.
I would still be with the love of my life had it not been for his children.
The son decided that he was bigger and stronger than myself and so he hit me with a steel bar. I could not abide such behavior and because dad, did not know how to deal with it and decided not to, I got rid of them both.
I have met some really great older and younger men on this site. And I thank each and every one of them for their flowers and emails.
So I say, let each person over the age of 21 find their soul mate, true love, or heart's desire. Be they older or younger...
Have a "PINK DAY"

oh, only ppl over 21 are allowed to fall in love?

I just have to comment on this one...Yes there are ladies out there who prefer younger men, and for good reasons.

As for myself, I have dated younger men for the past 10 years. It is not I who are looking for them, but they seem to look for me. I enjoy their company, their drive for life, & their energy. Older men just don't have what they do.

So if you are attracted to younger men/older women...Have fun. I know I do.

they contact me too I have one that I am friends with on IM. We havent met yet but he is just the sweetest!

I never wanted to date an older women, but I'm guessing some guys are looking for thier mom to take care of them.

when women look for younger men....is that the same as a male mid life crisis???????????