Can anyone see past what a person looks like?

I am not 5'9" and 120 pounds, but I am caring , considerate, a good listener, I have a big heart but, I am a larger woman. Today alone I had received messages from men and when they asked for my picture that was the end... I have a great personality and have been told I am fun to be with. Don't judge this book by its cover... give me a chance and get to know me.
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5 9 120? that's hot.
Hi newyorklpn! Welcome to the bloggers community of CS!
Know what? I think the best way is to just post your picture on your profile! This way, ppl will not have expectations other from what they see!
I'm sure you're a wonderful woman! And not all guys like skinny ladies! Trust me on this one! Be confident! Be happy! Be yourself!
Take care!
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i second that we would love to see a picture its a good way to get attention
Hey there... I know exactly where you are coming from. I, too, am a big woman. I keep getting "you're hot", "wow, you're beautiful"....but that is about as far as it goes. It's okay for a man to be "big"...but us full-figured girls are rediculed! I am tired of it. Personality is what it is all about and what is on the inside counts. Keep your head up and you will find someone. That is just it - give us a chance and get to know us! We are worth it!!!
I first met this man to babysit his son during the summer months.My son and his son were the same age, and I had taken the summer off. We went to his apt. we talked and talked for hours. the kids played along with my daughter. He was a little heavy and not my type. Next day, I got the job but the kids were not working out. Months later he called and we started dating and he became the love of my life.

My son always dated a shorter girl, a little not so overweight. I really liked his girlfriend,but he married a 6' girl and He is 6 'one". Still can't see it. She's not his type so I thought, but they are still married after 7 years.

I knew a girl that was in a wedding and her partner was overweight ,big time and doing drugs. He was in looooove with her and asked her out. She said,lose weight and get off drugs. He did and they were narried two years later and still are.
Don't give up and you'll meet someone when you least expect it . Good luck. Holly
Hi newyorklpn wave
Im not small so i know how you feel, but i did meet someone very special here, he's a great guy and he likes me just the way i am.So handing in there, if guys dont email you back, be glad you know what they are right off the bat.
Keep Trying and Good Luck.
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