taking chances with military fellas??

So, ive been talking to a guy since may, & ive liked him just aint thot much of it bc hes been away with the military since end of june. Weve hung out before he left &had our first kiss the day he left. We have continued to talk and the other day he asked me to be his gf. I said yes, but now worry. Not quite sure over what just worry. Hes not coming home til april either....But, i told him i was only human & hes there and im here. That im gonna be open, honest, and just straight forward. If i cant do this or if something happens here im gonna tell him. Did i do the wrong thing? is this stupid?
When u like someone, & they are a million miles away it seems as tho u dont forsake precious moments with everyone else. You apart, but it gives u all the more determination to get close to them, & feels as tho ur hearts are warmly mended close together.
I figured, give it a try. But, shld i try or just not try? I guess only i can make the ultimate decision, but just lookin for some feedback! thanks so much everyone!
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If you like the guy enough to wait for him...then do that....if you want to play the field...then that is up to you.

Dont leave the poor guy hanging on a string...he doesnt need that.

The previous comment makes a lot of sense.
After more than 19 years in the military, I think I can help you out here. He sounds like a nice guy, but don't for one second think that he is going to stay true to you while he is gone (at this time). When he gets back, take it slow. Right now he is lonely and felt something for you before he left. He is clinging on to that feeling. Don't have any unreasonable expectations of him or your self and see what happens when he gets back. Having a pen pal back in the states is really cool when you are deployed, especially when it is a beautiful woman. I think you said it best when you said you are going to be completely honest with him. Don't string him along if things don't work out. "Dear John" letters are never good, but you guys didn't really have any kind of relationship before he left. If he is into you when he gets back, go for it, but like I said, take it slow. Good luck :)
You don't have a real relationship with him yet so don't wait for him, he's not gonna be a monk over there either. Go on with your life. If he comes back and you both are singles and still feel the same then you still can have a real relationship. But this waiting for him, it's only gonna make you feel miserable. Save yourself the heartache and go on with your life.
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