Marriage Mom, and Aging

Married, Mother and over 40.
These are the three things that sometimes bring a woman to her prime in her life. She's become wiser and more lovelier than ever.

But what if these three things could become the downfall of a woman's life, well at least two out of three anyway.

Becoming older in a marriage and your looks alternate from youthful innocence into aging history. The marriage that once was vital and carefree full of love and passion, become everlasting depended on a life support system to keep it going.

Children that once was there at all time now are adult who has outside affairs to attend to instead.

Taking age , none passionate marriage and Kids on their own are things that some of us may view as the end of all that was once good. I personally go through half of these problem myself and feel that I should search deep within myself and discover who I once was before. What made me happier before marriage kids and aging.

Doing this.. perhaps I would discover that what once was can be again if I allow it to. Set myself free to enjoy the finer things in life. Be more considerate of my needs for a change not to sound selfish,.. but sometimes a person should indulge in themselves a little and for years now , that haven't been so for me.

I should start and perhaps I will just one problem...

I don't know where to start first. or maybe I already did,
oh well.