wuts wrong with my minor disability???
2 years ago i had both of my hips totally replaced...I now cannot work fulltime...Im tryin to get my best friends business goin in my area since i moved away from her...I cant walk more than a half mile w/o stopin cuz of the pain...I cant stand or sit for a long period of time...other than that Im a normal human being...A lot of women think that men a heartless cuz of the way they treat ppl with minor stuff like that...
well im gettin to the point that women are heartless cuz wenever we start chit chattin and i tell them about my minor disability i dont hear from them again...
wut am i doin wrong besides trying to live a normal life...
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If they are truely your friend or truely like you then they will accept who you are like you are now.
But, after looking at your picture, I can guess I'm a few years older than you, so I'm going to use my age as a magic wand of experience (I think God is still punishing me for my wanton ways during my youth!!).
IMHO, women, like men, first check out the package wrappings. Then if the wrappings are nice enough, then they concentrate on the package's contents. In that sense, your hip replacement is considered a deformity, in their eyes. Take a look at deer, for example. The biggest, baddest bucks are the ones who get to pass on their genes to the next generation. Cruel, but true.
Second most important in their eyes is security. A man who doesn't work full-time, or can't work at all, doesn't offer women the financial security they see as important. You wouldn't think that that would be important anymore, what with women's lib and all, but it really is.
I know all this is cruel, but man, I've been there. That doesn't mean that I don't occasionally try to get a seat at the table, so to speak, because I do. Keep trying because there "are" women out there who will accept you for who you are and not just reject you out of hand.
Good luck!