Long Distance Advice...... Can it work?

Hey, I really need advice from ppl who have either tried a long distance relationship or who are currenltly engaged in one.
I am from South America and I met this guy on CS who lives in Europe. We have been communicating very frequently for the last six moths and I can feel a connection. He seems to be warm caring and sensitive and I miss him if a day goes by and we dont chat. While we have not discussed any specifics because it is too early I get suttle hints that he really wants to get to know me better. While I would be he first to say that I have some trust issues, I can verify almost everything he tells me so I trust him to a certain extent.I am not currently seeing anyone and he aslo says the same. But men are men and he has needs.

So should I hold on and continue to get to know him better and see where things go or should I still look for someone in my own country.It would take a lot to make this long distance relationship work, because it would mean one person has to be relocate and give up their life and I am not really prepared for tht...
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never bee there myself but I am extremely skeptic long distance 'relationships' can ever work...

anyways, my opinion on this matter values lil ... so, perhaps I'd done better not to reply... donno
@miamigirl....some worked out some didnt make it....maybe it depends on the people involved ...dunno
It would work if after seeing each other for real and if everything goes well you agree either you to move to Europe or he to move to South America (if you have serious plans). If that will be only some computer relationship or you'll meet only a couple of times, that could break someone's heart + a waste of time.
Only really true love will make it happen (oh yeah and finance). Anyway the man is supposed to come to you or maybe that's old fashion these days.
ru4eva has an excellent point. Be careful how much time, emotion, and $ you invest until you know how much he is willing to invest. Let him make the first move.
Girl, long distance relationship are hard to handle, because first of all u didnt see the person, and second, u cannot trust him, maybe all he does is lies.

I`ve tried many times, and I can tell u it usually doesnt burn out help

I`d offer u to meet as soon as possible, and don`t let yrself to illusions and dreams, cause if it finish badly, u`ll really feel hurt lonely and betrayed.. smitten comfort doh crying

Relations Are All about:
Winning, Losing And Sharing.
Winning trust
Losing Ego.

Try to find out if his words and actions are the same.. read between the lines, and please be careful, don`t give yr heart until u don`t meet and know him for longer time in real, like 2 weeks a month...

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Good luck kiss yay
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