Long Distance Advice...... Can it work?
Hey, I really need advice from ppl who have either tried a long distance relationship or who are currenltly engaged in one.I am from South America and I met this guy on CS who lives in Europe. We have been communicating very frequently for the last six moths and I can feel a connection. He seems to be warm caring and sensitive and I miss him if a day goes by and we dont chat. While we have not discussed any specifics because it is too early I get suttle hints that he really wants to get to know me better. While I would be he first to say that I have some trust issues, I can verify almost everything he tells me so I trust him to a certain extent.I am not currently seeing anyone and he aslo says the same. But men are men and he has needs.
So should I hold on and continue to get to know him better and see where things go or should I still look for someone in my own country.It would take a lot to make this long distance relationship work, because it would mean one person has to be relocate and give up their life and I am not really prepared for tht...
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anyways, my opinion on this matter values lil ... so, perhaps I'd done better not to reply... donno
I`ve tried many times, and I can tell u it usually doesnt burn out
I`d offer u to meet as soon as possible, and don`t let yrself to illusions and dreams, cause if it finish badly, u`ll really feel hurt lonely and betrayed..
Relations Are All about:
Winning, Losing And Sharing.
Winning trust
Losing Ego.
Try to find out if his words and actions are the same.. read between the lines, and please be careful, don`t give yr heart until u don`t meet and know him for longer time in real, like 2 weeks a month...
Good luck