Response to Shadowwolf74:

Dude, I'd say, just get on with it. If you let your doubts and fears get in the way, then you've lost. Seek and ye shall find, remember?

Someone told me once, stop looking, and the person you want will be standing right in front of you.

And she was right, I couldn't see the wood for the trees. You just got to pay attention.

If we set our sights too high, or too low, we miss out on a wonderful experience that could have made us better, stronger, wiser.

I wish that I had this advice before I married. What a waste of time.

I thought I was going to die a lonely old man, and jumped at the first woman who showed me interest. What a fool.

Learn by your mistakes. What did I do wrong, and how can I make it right?

What can I do to make my (love) life better?

Above all, remember the words of the Dalai Lama - Don't Give Up!!!!!!!

Hope this helped, not only you, but anyone else in the same boat.