Divorce rate

Great question!

Tonymax,
"who is not understanding who"... I think who a human being at least understands is ... himself/herself

"Who is not tolerating who"... I am always surprised when people ask, beg and force others for being tolerated but it never comes to their minds, they should be tolerate as well to others

Solution - I am a simple woman, I cannot offer solutions, I can say what is in my book....
Don´t marry Someone you can live with. Marry Someone, you do not want to live without.

Aswina...will you marry me?

yes divorce is higher everywhere, family does not seem so important as it once did, but for most societies , the day when 3 generations lived in 1 house, holding the family together, with support networks are long gone, people have more choice, including the choice to leave, the list is endless, money pressure, selfishness, religion is going by the wayside, respect with it, it goes on, but that it leaves heartbreak, and lasting damage in its wake, are but 2 certainties, alas; it is a sad subject.

Divorce happens.That's life.

Thankfully here long gone are the days when there was no way out of a marriage.Society,family and religious pressures made it impossible to get out of unhappy and/or abusive marriages.


We start dating around 15? 16?.To think that it is natural to stay with and have a happy,fullfilling and long lasting relationship from one person from teen years to 70 or so is ridiculous.

People change.That's what life is.Life is change and many is the time that we change so radically from the one we loved at 20 to who we are at 37 that there is no chance to make a relationship with them be loving,healthy and lasting.

im afraid Mary, the days when you could get out, are still long distant, in many countries, and traditions, i wish it were not so, but it is, no support networks, or refuges, simply, no where to run, a prisoner in there own home, many in remote valleys, its tragic, i know of it only too well, believe me.

Leonnak
YES -

OK.. now that we are gonna get married...you can call me Leo. haha

Nice to meet you Leo you can call me Aswi or Wina if you want to

Ed..if that is per 1000 that seems pretty low to me. A new hope has risen in me!

I think marrying and divorcing are private questions. So we can't blame this one or that one. It's good we have alternatives and the responsibility to make choices in our life.