Without Beaut No Love

Why is there still MEN out there who choose a woman from outside??? You send them a message, they rather only look at your profile, and never even a reply. DOES IT STILL EXIST WITHOUT BEAUTY ON THE OUTSIDE, A WOMAN WILL NOT GET CHOSEN???? "WHAT ABOUT THE HEART - WHERE DOES IT STAND" in a situation like this????
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I understand how you feel and conversely
women choose appearances and wealth as well.
Are you sure its a visual thing that's putting men off? You look just lovely to me.

You have your own ways of doing things as stated on your profile: You don't smoke, or drink (admirable qualities) and although you haven't specified that you would like to be in a relationship with an abstainer, maybe men who smoke and drink will rule themselves out, or worry you might want to change them. There could be many reasons why men don't respond, don't you see?

Its also a matter of interpretaion. A lot of people have the number 69 on the end of their user name, but its rarely their birth year laugh . An assumption, or misinterpretation can put people off.

Have you though about using the profile review facility to get some feedback to see if there's a difference between how you intended your profile to come across and how people interpret it?
What if you looked like this?
Embedded image from another site
Maybe you just weren't their type?
The look is very important. I don't care if a man is handsome but I care if he ATTRACTS ME. And if he does I go to his profile to get to know more about him. Simple! wave
I sorry, we are men and beauty always catches our eyes first, in saying that Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, meaning each one has a different standard of beauty that they are looking for. It is only after we get to know you do we see the beauty under the skin and that is what really holds us in the long term. So give us a chance to get to know you before you write us off wine
THYME69 ... It is the same for men too.
Look at our profile, never bother to
make further contact.

On several occasions I have emailed
the ladies who went over my profile
inviting them to invite themself into
my Friend Request inbox.

As you seem
to feel as strongly as I do about this,
perhaps you would care to get in touch
with me?

Yours Sincerely,

David/Cloud94ever.

happy place

01.27 a.m. GMT, 2/12/2011.
LIVINGINHOPE .... 'That' was a very perceptive comment which
you made, and I was impressed! People often see only the
physical beauty, and not the nature of the person behind the skin. The same is true about ugliness.

happy place

01.20 a.m. GMT, 2/12/2011.

JAC379 ... That was very good advice which you gave to thyme69!
I was equally -along with Livinginhope's comments- impressed.
happy place

01.24 a.m. GMT, 2/12/2011.
JAC379 ...IF SUR-DE-QUITO ... has said 'some women' seem to prefer appearances and wealth' over (say) personality (and relative poverty) would you have been replied to his assertion at all?!

happy place

01.28 a.m. GMT, 2/12/2011.

FIONA09 from Riga. Latvia .... Then please give me a trial run?
Cloud94ever!

happy place

Invite yourself to my Friend Request inbox, and I would be
delighted to meet you there, and add you to my list of
Favourite People to chat with here at CS!

Yours Sincerely,

David.

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01.32 a.m. GMT, 2/12/2011.
JAC379 ... "YES, I DO LIKE YOUR SENTIMENTS!" If you had informed me that this was how you felt, then I believe that you and I could still have been friend's : BECAUSE I AGREE WITH YOU TOTALLY!

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01.37 a.m. GMT, 2/12/2011.
SOUTHWESTERNMAN .... YAY! I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU : TOO!
What you said is true. And I often pray that women everywhere
will see this too, and give us the bebefit of the doubt, instead
of writing us off because we don't measure up to the standard of
beauty that they may be (conditioned to be (?)) looking for.

David/Cloud94ever.

happy place

01.50 a.m. GMT, 2/12/2011.
As far as I know there are no ladies interested in me at the moment. And in my lifetime I was turned down many times because of my not so good looks.

That doesn't stop me from going out dancing on the weekend. And yes, women turn me down a lot but that's ok too. I still have fun.

Just go out and have a good time with a friend. It'll do wonders for you.
good one live in hope.
My dear,

my friend says " some men are intelligent, but 99% are not blind "

You are very beautiful, try a nice dress and you will see, your inbox will be full and you can sort them out.

rolling on the floor laughing
I agree with primavera, try do some changes (not necessarily modifications) but like: remove the sunglasses, do experiments to the hairstyle, and dress / clotes. Small details can make a big difference.

I got help from cs actually, when thay zoomed in on my face at the outdoor tent picture. I feel i was luckey with that one.
Hope thay wan't be disappointed with my looks in real life.
Attention i get though here.

I'm on a norwegian page. Less desireable mainpicture there. Hardly attention at all.

Details at your pictures make a huge impact here at a datingsite.
Experiment with your pictures to see what gives attention.
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