that awkward moment...

All of us have had that awkward moment with someone whether it be from a bad experience,x girl friend(or boyfriend) or a simple I don't know what to say your just way to hot not to look at...yeah haha anyways after a awkward moment you feel icky inside like what could I have done? Why can't I figure out what to say...I have these moment with some people....writing about it will help me and you get passed that moment

Earlier today I saw one of my attractive friends as I was walking to the coffee shop I stopped and said hi...then I tried to have a conversation with her,this lead to that moment. I started talking about my car but something told me she didn't seemed in tune with what I was saying..so there was that stand off,the cold silence of deflection with in the group we started talking to other people and for the rest of the time it was plain awkward.

Yet when two of my friends came by and stopped to talk all that tension was gone.
I had amazing time talking to them I felt I was right in the center of attention,being listened to and my words gracefully came out not one time I talked out of place nor any moment of silence. That's when I noticed...

She was listening in hearing our conversation. Before my friends dropped by after the awkward moment I over heard her talking about me being awkward.
So after I heard that I felt pretty low about myself. I felt I didn't belong in there. Soon after I realized one of the people that owns one of the businesses in town was at the coffee shop. I knew her for awhile and we use to talk allot about our personal lives. She had something on her mind...

Being me I listened with full contentment. Then I knew I need to vent what just happened in a way that favors what happened prior. I explained how I've been single and that I knew I was attractive yet when I liked someone it was hard to make that extra move. I told her I was stuck in this coffee shop and I was sick of small talk that leads to no where. I made myself clear and loud so my attractive friend could hear why I felt discouraged. Oh she heard me and soon after when my friends dropped by to talk she couldn't help to hear what I was saying.

I caught her looking at me more then once. It worked and as she when she was leaving she was eying my up and down and also said good bye in a peculiar way.
The rest of the day I talked to my friends and said good bye. At the end of day I made my point that I was open to talk to anyone with my full interest,help people engage in a vary amusing conversation and above all else maybe I changed the future with the girl I've liked and noticed liked me.

The moment comes up when you expect it to. It happens when you show no interest in what someone has to say. People can sense when your uncomfortable.

All it takes is you being yourself and interest in others. You don't have to over dress or act like someone else. All it takes is you being your self and being calm and open to talk about what they want to talk about with your interest added in