just for thought!

i have never done this online dating thing before but i am finding it to be not so much fun. FIRST thing, please fill out the section that states what you are looking for. this will help the person who is looking at your profile to know if they think they would be a match for you, not just you matching them. we (especially us women) need to know if you would not only be interested in us mentally, emotionally but also physically. be honest!!! i don't have a preference but everyone is an individual & that's what makes the world interesting. SECOND, i am finding that people join but say nothing to eachother (probably out of fear of being rejected, i myself am guilty of this) but that's what we are all here for. you don't know if you will like someone until you get to know them, good thing about this online thing is that you can get to know someone without worrying about them taking one look at you & turning the other way so you know them for who they are, not what they look like (this is why i do not post my picture & no i'm not hidieous).
i am just looking for the personality in someone, don't but much bearing on looks. just e-mail someone to say "what's up". even if it's just to be friends.