JustJess77
JustJess77
Jun 2012
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its 2 am....

This is random and I know that but as I lay here not sleeping as usual I can't help but have a million things run through my head. I'm not sure how much longer I can keep going on like this. There is so much pressure on my shoulders right now. Everybody needs something from me right now...I'm really considering just quitting and walking away from all these people who depend on me. If its for myself and my girls how can it be the wrong choice.

gnite CS
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Leo_7
Leo_7●Baku, Azerbaijan
Jun 14, 2012●8 Blogs●577 Comments
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Everybody knows own situation better than others.So you know what is the best for u.If u feel like walking away from those who give u preassure ,then do it.But again,we dont know what's exactly ur situation.Whatever u decide to do,I just wish u good luck.wine wine
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Singleagain50
Singleagain50●Whyalla, South Australia Australia
Jun 14, 2012●19 Comments
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Hi just hang in there, USA is not in a goog place now Keep a roof over your head.
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almera03
almera03●portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK
Jun 14, 2012●2 Blogs●180 Comments
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Hugs Jess, I think you need to set clear boundries and times. Let people know you will do things for them, when you can, at a time when it is convenient for you. They will pressure you if/when you roll over and do everything they ask. When you spread yourself to thin and don't take time for yourself, your batteries wont recharge, you will burn out emotionally. If you can, find someone to help shoulder some of that pressure, even if its only someone you can go to and vent.
Learn to say no Jess if you feel its become too much. hug
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market39
market39●adelaide, South Australia Australia
Jun 14, 2012●124 Blogs●1,693 Comments
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cswelcome i am sure things will sought them selfs out for you....beer beer
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JustJess77
JustJess77OP●Monroe, North Carolina USA
Jun 14, 2012
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Good morning and sorry about whining, just had a bad night but nothing a little sleep couldn't cure. @ Leo thank you for telling me its ok to walk away, I won't but its good to hear its ok if I didhug

@ Alemera..thank you and I know you are right and I know I need to set boundaries, sometimes easier rsaid than done. I have the hardest time saying no but I also know if I don't do something soon to change things then I will be no help to anybody because I won't have anything left. This I will start to work on today. 'Hug

Today is going to be a good day one way or anotherteddybear Thank you
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Ed1941
Ed1941●Bullhead City,, Arizona USA
Jun 14, 2012●151 Blogs●4,758 Comments
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Atta girl!

Get away from the problems because of other people's needs and fix yours. Just stick with your kiddies because they count alot!!!

Glad you feel better.
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NAKEDMUDPEOPLE
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE●unknown, Wisconsin USA
Jun 14, 2012●1 Blogs●21 Comments
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JustJess77, my sister, niece and grandniece need my help.
I help because my life is good, my daughters life is good and
this is how I give back.

bouquet
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