Destiny,,It's always the other face of life

You,,yourself,your kids ,your wife,your health,,and also your close neighbors,,
Don't ever think that you got the volition to choose any of them by self means ,,or to get some miracles to control at least one,,
Destiny has already his decisions to do the choices in behalf of you,
Why do we live our lives in such a way of deficiency poverty?
What could be the reasons of getting bad boys?
Wives might have the bad habits of treating her husband and even her children ,,,they might also got the bad temper that the other members in the family would find it difficult to share her their lives,
Health is the other thing which we would never have the ability to control it as ever what we wish,
Lastly,,
And to live your life safely and peacefully ,you shouldn't have adjoined the bad neighbor ,,,,,,,,his worse acts might annoy you in someway ,,,
Then ,,tell me now, and after all those reasons mentioned above,,
Is it your device to choose or the density has it?