someone answer this please~!

how come men judge women? am so tried of men judge women cause there weight. look we all need loving no matter what size we are. it's a sad world we live in.
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It's a sad fact of life that obesity is increasing at the same time the media is portraying unattainable body images of the "ideal" woman which a lot of men, and some women, particularly young women, buy into.

I don't know what the answer is. I do know that I try to work hard at not gaining weight because I don't feel good about myself if I struggle to zip up my jeans! And as a middle-aged woman I don't want to become type 2 diabetic which is also increasing in the Western world.

If a man does not fancy you because of your weight you have to accept it. He may not carry too much weight but have smelly armpits or arthritic fingers which you may find equally unappealing, so don't take it personally. handshake
Its probably for the same reason women judge men. someone tall, dark and handsome wins over someone average height and balding every time, till someone is willing to settle
Women judge men to.
The world is not sad, it is sad, what people think and how they behaviour. Why eat until your are fat?
I read your profile. Your photos and profile text emphasise very much on a negative image of YOUR body. Why have profile pics of you when you were heavy??? You look lovely in your current pic, why showing other photos from your past? Your text evolves also around looks, again not in a positive way.

Looking at your profile make me suspect that you have issues with yourself. I would give a guy with a profile like this a wide berth. dunno
I agree with KNenagh. Value yourself. Too much negativity affects everything inside you and everything outside you.

People would always be judgmental and there's nothing you can do to change it. What you can do however is be more aware of yourself. And start from there.. wine
You don't need to listen some people who only can judge others even though they can not prove certain percentage of their successfulness... Don't blind yourself with their complete BS... They are not your God and you don't entitle to worship them... Unless they are far better than you, then it is understandable...but if not, just stay away from them... keep healthy and do exercise, ok ???
Deali, the most important thing is that you feel good and happy with yourself. People will always critisize others no matter what..I think self-confidence shouldn´t be based on what other people thing about us or how we look, it should be based on what you believe about yourself.hug
What most people don't know is that overweight is often not the result of overeating. The increase in the amount of chemicals via pesticides and additives in processed foods takes a toll on the thyroid, rendering it unable to produce the hormones needed to control body functions leading to overweight, high cholesterol and heart disease and cancer. Among other things. Furthermore, consumption of wheat and other foods that have been tampered with for years result in a long list of ailments.

What's worse is that the diagnosis of thyroid problems is so often never made due to ignorance on the part of the medical community of a function that is so basic to our health.

Before you decide to judge a person's appearance and make presumptions about them, you may want to consider that if you enjoy your toast for breakfast, a sandwich a lunch, and pizza and beer for dinner and enjoy produce nicely pestized... you may soon be the one being judged.
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