What I want in a man

I want a man of Good Character. Unlike most talents, good character is not something we are born with - it must be built piece by piece through Thought, Choice, Courage, and
Determination. A strong man that will stand
up for what he believes in...even if it means he stands alone. One that is smart enough to know when to follow his heart instead of his head. One absolute necessity is an incredible,wonderful, irresistible heart? A heart that
enables him to love deeply. Other qualities I look for is a man is the ability to change,learn, grow, and the willingness to do so.He must understand and display tenderness, understanding, a strong sense of self, and have
the ability to love truly and passionately.....unconditionally forever. He will possess the ability to be strong without cruelty, vulnerable
without weakness, and loving without possessiveness. A man that doesn't feel threatened by a womans intelligence. As
a father he would treat his daughters with un-patronizing respect and his sons with gentle authority. He knows that a man should be respected, not feared. He must have a good
sense of humor, and to know when and when not to take life seriously. Romance is the Process..Love is the Goal! I've never been able to figure out why so many people settle for less than exciting, passionate lives. We deserve an
exciting life, and a passionate relationship.Getting what you deserve requires confidence,positive self-esteem, and a willingness to take responsibility for your relationship and your life. Nobody said it would be easy - but man,
the rewards are incredible! The price of intimacy is high. And the risk is great. The price is Yourself. And the risk is abandonment, loss or humiliation. These are major, and
understandable barriers. Everything else in life is easy compared with love. You can learn the secrets of the atom. You can become an Olympic athlete. You can send a man to the Moon. But there's no instruction book or guru who can teach you a sure-fire,guaranteed method for achieving lasting love in your life. And yet love is what it's all about! What about the promise of intimacy? People who experience intimacy with their partners are lovers with an inner resource that takes them beyond the limits of what one person alone can achieve. They have a safe harbor, and this helps them deal with the world much more effectively. And, they experience an inner peace unknown to most because Lovers listen with their Hearts! Creating a loving
relationship is the most difficult, time-consuming and complicated challenge you will face in your entire life. Welcome to the mystery, the challenge,the journey.

If your looking for a one night stand dont waste my time its not going to happen, if your into playing games with someones feelings and everything once again dont waste my time. If you cant be honest with me and yourself and you know what you want in life but your not strong enough to stand up and fight for it and if your looking for someone thats fake and that lays in the bars and that dont know how to treat someone then your reading the wrong profile. I know what i want in life and in a man and im not going to settle for less. and this might make me a **** and if it does then i guess im a ****, but my happiness means alot to me.....so if your looking for something real, a caring,loving,honest person which is so hard to find now days then hit me up other then that DONT WASTE MY TIME.......
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Amen sister! They'll try and waist your time anyway, but you stick to your guns! applause
Melissa.....

Have read your plaintive diatribe & sympathise with many of the statements....See my personal mail in response...


Roger x
The minute you meet THE GUY with the chemistry, sending your senses in overdrive all these promises and logic goes out the window and you are back to sq.ONE.
Good Luck
M
In other words ,how big is your 'Wallet'....and I want to see your 'Bank Statements'........laugh laugh laugh grin grin grin grin

John Dutchie
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