BE WISE WHEN CHOOSING A MATE

BE WISE WHEN CHOOSING A MATE by: Benayahuw YisraeL

FOUR FOUNDATIONS TO A HAPPY HOME:
PHYSICAL: One must be physically attracted to the other. There is always somebody for somebody. Not everyone wants to drive the Mercedes or Bentley, some would prefer a Toyota or Deawoo. At first glace a person can find that they are attracted to the other. This brings on the urge to get to know who the other is. A feeling of wanting to know more about the unknown. And when the feeling of attraction is too overwhelming, first steps are taken. BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER!

MENTAL: After the initial attraction, conversation occurs. This is a probing of minds. A search for intellectual prowess such as wit and sound judgment. Not necessarily a matching of the same knowledge or even an evolved mind, but rather how one another are able to give understanding of the knowledge each possesses. The French kiss of conversation. A MIND IS A TERRIBLE THING TO WASTE!

EMOTIONAL: At some point ill emotions are evoked, either by one another or outside forces. If this happens, atleast one of the two must BECOME one or even some of the following; understanding, compromising, rational, empathetic, affectionate and the list goes on. Sometimes we can get overtaken by emotion and so the other must be capable of lifting one from that emotional downtrodden state. This can be a test of True Love. Be Fully Grown, not just half stepping. "SENSITIVE" IS A PART OF BEING A MAN (human beings - 50/50 makes ONE).

s*xual (Exodus 22:16): Body language is just as equally important as the three foundations above. But this can be a rather tricky union of the physical sense. Because it is procreative and can also be regressive at the same time. This entails the language of making babies and yet it can also be disatisfying to either one if not both who are in the relationship. Remember the saying, Communication Is The Key? Discussion can lessen discomfort and/or unsatisfaction. Everything can be improved upon. An unsatisfied male/female is more prone to search elsewhere for that missing link in the chain. s*xual ONENESS IS A PORTION IN THE EXPRESSIONS OF LOVE.

Still, please note, if these FOUR FOUNDATIONS don't come down from the True Spiritual Head then they are almost impossible to blend accordingly.

Imagine if you will, having only three foundations in-sync. This is the form of a TRIangle. Each of you have one foot on solid ground yet the other foot is TRYing to share a space only meant for one. It's as though you are stepping on each others toes, as they say. Now imagine you only have two out of the four foundations compatible. This would be a see-saw effect. You are both out of balance, struggling with who is over who. A power struggle within a UNION? Who are to be as ONE? A house divided, cannot stand. In this last instance there is only one foundation shared. So now you have one on top of the other as building blocks. But here, you have the other upon your shoulders while trying to stand firm on one foot. This will only come tumbling down for I don't know anyone able to stand on one foot forever. Especially carrying another instead of caring for each other so he/she (they) can some day walk side by side, hand in hand.

Proverbs 12:4 ~ A VIRTUOUS woman is a Crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones.

Proverbs 14:1 ~ Every WISE woman Buildeth her House: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.

Proverbs 18:22 ~ Whoso FINDETH a Wife Findeth a GOOD thing, AND obtaineth Favor of Yahweh.

Proverbs 19:14 ~ House and riches are the inheritance of the fathers: and a PRUDENT Wife is From Yahweh.