Younger men and older women...

A very interesting question.....maybe they don't like the Woman from there own age group....one reason I have been told....a lot of younger Woman are so 'brutally butch' in there character make up...and it a major turn off for the younger Men,and also I feel that a lot of Young Woman have lost that wonderful strong Feminine quality....which is becoming quite common here in New Zealand , with young New Zealand Woman .....Come on young Men...give an answer....It will be quite interesting....Good blog....thank you....


J.D

First we shall state what is young for you? 20? 30? Is the age a true teller to tranform from boy to man? or is it just the intellectual maturity that counts?

I personaly don't prefer older women or younger, even if 90% of my girlfriends are older then me by at leat 10 years.

Unfortunatly what they say is true, today younger women have lost that elegance, superiority and strenght, like even many older ones to, its like women that had the power just wanted to loose it and become dumpb as us men... leave us the stupidity to only look at the exterior... hahaha...

But we just can't make all the same, it is a discussion made by individuals refered to individuals.... i can just speak my mind not others...

If mny younger men do choose older women its not because they are easier, to say the truth the younger are much more easy !!, its because there is a certain savourfier, ellegance, maturity and easiness in everithing from talk to making love to fighting to traveling to sharing.....there are a lot of thing tha are different but alsow there are many things tht are better to tink about before starting a relashion with an older woman or man, what is the gap years? i think personaly more then 13 max 15 it shouldn't matter but when it eceeds this mark the situation is mor biological, can a younger man build a family with a much older woman? viceversa, can a younger woman build a family with a much older man? i have personaly seen it to become very hard for some friends....so the question remains, what does the individual wants? how much is he/she willing to compromise?...

Yes nz women "Dont let your character change colour with your environment, find who you are and let it stay in its true colours" .. quote from a book i was reading when i was young.

thats all i wanted to say.
Oh and most of the guys in nz my age are at the drinking, partying,playing the field stage.. hard to find a decent genuine guy here.

thanks.

p.s. No wonder i cant find any guys my age, their dating older women

bonita i am available.....

Reply to Bonita...And a very Good morning to Bonita...thank you for your posting...Have you read the latest edition of the New Zealand Listener...article on 'Angry Young Woman'....?????
Also have you ever been to Takapuna Night Clubbing area on a Friday Night and seen the behavior of totally drunk and extremely vicious young Ladies in physical attacking there Boyfriends,who are just trying to support them from falling over,and hurting them selves ...I have....and on Four occasions I have seen this happen
Also I like to invite to read on the Australia/New Zealand Forum page 2, I think on Ralf74 thread on 'Why we do it'....and would appreciate your opinion......

J.D

Yes but all im saying is that "Not all young women are like that" : )

thanks = ]

And NOT all young men are like that too. I think we cant generalise that every young nz girl acts that way just by what you saw at Takapuna night club, if you know what im trying to say. And because we HAVENT met every single young girl/guy in new zealand to know that they actually act that way.
I hope this doesnt come across as mean or rude. if it does then apologys.

Age is rather a state of mind!

Older women appeal to younger men for their maturity, stablilty and non fussy nature.

Honestly, age is just a number. It's all in the chemistry. If an older woman and her younger lover are madly in love, have at it.

Younger guy with an older woman! .. Well - seems that´s all I ever get approached by! .. But!
am I complaining! ...Oh no! I just love having `FUN´ & I am doing
that right now on this site!! ....

I would say one reason is because older women can cook better, and the best way to my heart is through my stomach. Younger women are harder to trust, especially if they are in college and party a lot. Older women have that out of there system, and are better for marriage and a family.

Whatever works for you i guess :)

Is that the gym next to burger king ;) or the new one just outside the mall next to dennys? lol

Well i have to say thats a disgusting behaviour..and i never disagreed with you anywhere, all i was saying is that some young guys act that way too..drunk and act stupid, but you keep talking about young women only.

hmm did i just see someone say "older women go for young guys" and "young girls go for older guys?"

And to whoever that said "older women are good for marriage and a family"? if so why they still single at an old age?

Personally I've never been with a woman older than me, but I was trying to shed some light on how guys think. I wouldn't sleep with a woman over forty, unless she was still smokin hot and persistent. It would remind me of my mother. Mid to late thirties, I absolutely would hook up with if she was wife material. My ex girlfriends mom was 43, but she would be an exception because she was hotter than my girlfriend. I would go over to their house a little early b4 my girlfriend got off work, hoping she would let me bang her. I don't want anybody to get the wrong imprecision of me, I'm just trying to be honest in how guys think. That was a while ago and I'm actually looking for love now, and you can't help who you fall in love with or their age.

Reply to Bontia87....Yes....and sorry....I have seen some, lets say unpleasant behavior of 'Drunk Guys' as well,my I just have to shake my head in disbelief sometimes at there manners .....as you are well aware we have a major problem here, with The 'Binge Drinking' Culture...
....Correct, that's the Gym I go too.....Oh have you seen the Cafe next too it...Go there...Great Cafe,awesome Coffee and Food...Hey I 'Dutch'....and love my Coffee......
Have a think this one....why do you think younger Guys are going for older Woman.........

J.D