I have them too and these questions are alsow true in the job, sentimental life, family, friendship...etc etc... the only answere i gave my self is " i don't care of people like that, there must people people like me and i will be happy to find them..." .... you are one of them....plus many on CS .... i am glad we are not alone at least.....
Dan I must tell you this; you was lucky to have had this expereince virtually, just think if you actually date???
I had one sole experience with a nut head and that was enough for me since it was face to face.....
Unfortunatly normal people like most who writes on CS, and that doesnt include me , are in minority if compared with nut cases like yours, watch out next time and good luck mate
Did you try telling him in a blunt way or just told him in such a way he whopefully would of understood, that basicilly he did not.... because there are guys who just dont get it either ways... maybe next time make prior to the arranging the date tell him a set of rules and the conditions, if he doesnt respect one he should know the date is over, if they like it they will respect you, if they dont then you have not wasted your time and have not got into a situation like you described...hope my 2 cents help you...
just think if you didnt share your true thoughts and you did get together...what would of he done once he found out the truth? better alone then with people who doesnt deserve you....
It is the same for me, I to work from home and it seems there is no rest even when you switch off the computer and try to relax....your mind just keeps on going....is there any reliefe for us?
First we shall state what is young for you? 20? 30? Is the age a true teller to tranform from boy to man? or is it just the intellectual maturity that counts?
I personaly don't prefer older women or younger, even if 90% of my girlfriends are older then me by at leat 10 years.
Unfortunatly what they say is true, today younger women have lost that elegance, superiority and strenght, like even many older ones to, its like women that had the power just wanted to loose it and become dumpb as us men... leave us the stupidity to only look at the exterior... hahaha...
But we just can't make all the same, it is a discussion made by individuals refered to individuals.... i can just speak my mind not others...
If mny younger men do choose older women its not because they are easier, to say the truth the younger are much more easy !!, its because there is a certain savourfier, ellegance, maturity and easiness in everithing from talk to making love to fighting to traveling to sharing.....there are a lot of thing tha are different but alsow there are many things tht are better to tink about before starting a relashion with an older woman or man, what is the gap years? i think personaly more then 13 max 15 it shouldn't matter but when it eceeds this mark the situation is mor biological, can a younger man build a family with a much older woman? viceversa, can a younger woman build a family with a much older man? i have personaly seen it to become very hard for some friends....so the question remains, what does the individual wants? how much is he/she willing to compromise?...
Hy new guy, I am as well a new guy on here, as well as you I am looking for a conversation but from what I think there is the usual problem from who came before us, they gave a very bad impression for the most of guys on here....and we pay the consequences...anyhow just wanted to wish you good luck.
so true love is like gardeners? to find a decent one it's near impossible? i don't think so, i think its more like finding the right compromises between two people. Lets say two people at the first date have the right chemestry, get along very well but they have different habits and backgrounds, ways of living and oppinions, both shoudl first understand the other and try to compromise and adapt a few things of them selfs to encounter a good living together.....all this is wonderful and acchievable but unrealizable if the two do not have resect for them selfs and others....i think true love is when respect is at the way of living of an individual...
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, are in minority if compared with nut cases like yours, watch out next time and good luck mate 
RE: what is this world coming to???
I have them too and these questions are alsow true in the job, sentimental life, family, friendship...etc etc... the only answere i gave my self is " i don't care of people like that, there must people people like me and i will be happy to find them..." .... you are one of them....plus many on CS .... i am glad we are not alone at least.....