Dream, Hope and Wish......
Being only human, it is our nature to dream, hope and wish....dream of what we want, hope it is not impossible and wish that it were not.Unfortunately, when we adhere to a dream with stubborness we restrict ourselves on our journey through the world of dating and love. We decide what we are looking for.....do we ever find it?....and bypass potential friends and lovers.
I recently started chatting with a potential interest. After a few days, he shared his thoughts with me on what he wanted in a partner and asked me to share my thoughts in turn. I did.....and received a shock....a very rude letter. I was told that I had no values, that I had a poor outlook on life, no brains, no personality and more that I will not elaborate upon here. It was very hurtful, undeserved and sad to be judged for sharing thoughts and feelings that were different and, therefore, not accepted or respected.
So, I feel that dreams are wonderful, as long as we are flexible and do not allow them to cloud our sensibilities. My dream of the perfect man?.....someone who will accept me and love me for who I am. In turn, I will want to do the same for him.
In that light, I have tried to travel this particular road in my life with as few obstacles as possible by simply dreaming of love, hoping I will find it and wishing the same for all of you.
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