Am I Or Am I Not Worthy?
Seven months ago, I was diagnosed with cancer. It was too far gone, terminal, and the doctor's wanted to try massive chemo and radiation treatments.I have always shied away from man-made medicines. Too many of these drugs fix one problem only to cause other problems. On top of that, I had witnessed what these treatments do to patients first hand from beloved family members that have since passed.
I have been studying homeopathic medicine for 10 yrs., but the doctors disagreed and would not work with me on this so I was forced to quit my job of 10yrs.+ and collect my retirement to live on while I set about healing myself through herbal medicine.
I am now completely healed and have been told by the doctor that my body now needs to rest and gain strength. I didn't realize that it takes your body a year to heal and strengthen after cancer.
Here is my dilemma - When a man shows an interest in me that I find interesting, he eventually asks what I do for a living. When I tell him I am not working right now, I am either told that I am not getting a free ride from him or he simply never contacts me again.
I have been independent and worked since I was 15 yrs. old. I did not have a free ride during 28 yrs. of marriage and am still on my own 5 yrs. after my divorce.
I actually avoid many men on this site because their profiles state they want an independent woman who can provide for herself. And frankly, I'm tired of being insulted and hurt.
So, once again, we are dealing with restrictions on love based, this time, on materialism. How many wonderful women have you missed out on, men, because they weren't working or making enough money to suit you?
Well, men, you may think I'm not worthy of you because I am not working, but it is those of you that think that way that are not worthy of me or other women like me.
Comments (14)
Paul
it is, however, hard to believe but i would rather not argue with you. i'll believe you when you say you've been doing this for 10+ years.
as for men who shy away from you because of the fact that you're not working... so what? that's just one less guy in your life to hold you back or slow you down.
i think you look very good for your age and you should be proud.
once you find the right guy that doesn't shy away from your independence and accepts you wether or not you are working you have only completed the first step towards happiness.
next step: finding out if he's the right one.
YOU GO GIRL!!!! You deserve a man much better than any on this site, if they can't see how smart, pretty and caring you are, you are correct, it is their loss! Thank you to for standing up for women like me and so many others. You are an angel.
Herbs can heal many diseases. Cancer is so easily cured.
Cancer is Big Business for the AMA and in the end, their treatments make the body so sick until they kill you!
I had Fibromyalgia and my neurologist told me I would have it for the rest of my life. It is incurable. I told him, "I don't recieve that!" Two years later, in a Health Food store, I found my cure and was healed in 10 days!!! That was 12 years ago!
I began studying herbs and Natural Healing after I got healed and now I live my life to help others understand their bodies and live Healthy lives.
I too have worked since I was 14. I have never been supported by a man. I have seen what you have stated in profiles also.
Who needs them anyway??? You deserve someone with a pure heart, not one who's heart is corrupted by the things of this world.
One day, our prince will come!
You have a beautiful heart and Good Things shall come your way when you least expect it!
I too would love to hear how the natural remedy works as i have an idea I`m going to be in need of it .
thank you
Duncan