I'll never understand women

Hi Jamie! I understand perfectly what you're going through, don't know if my post "The Web Experience" is still around but it expresses some of what I feel in regard to cyber relationships, etc. I usually try to respond back to someone who has contacted me, even if I'm not interested, I am courteous enough to say thank you. Perhaps I'm a bit old fashioned but good manners has always been important to me. I've raised my children to exhibit this behaviour as well. I think what irks me even more is people who say rude things to you, my thoughts are if you are not interested in me, you don't have to be cruel and say something uncalled for to me. I think people have a tendency to have great expectations on sites such as these. Yes, many people are looking for a soulmate, companionship, a lover, etc., however, friendship should be established first and the only means to do so is by communicating I've had guys write "I'm interested" and nothing else How are you supposed to get to know a person when they write and don't tell you anything about themselves? You go to their profile and there is little there as well, a complete waste of my time!

I don't think you need to change your preferences to yield responses, pehaps you can contribute to the forums which will attract people to the subjects that interests others. It is also a means of people being exposed to your personality. In the interim, be patient, I'm sure there are lots of women who just haven't noticed you yet!

Cheers,
Rose

Jamie I think you're a handsome guy but maybe a pic with a smile will go a long way. You look a lil angry and scary. That might put women off replying ..Just a thought...