It's not all about looks

Why?

If you're witty and charming, you don't really need a pic up. That's just my opinion.

I've talked to a few guys here, no pics but absolutely lovely

David, just saw your comment to Miclee. Hey, that's not nice...

Of course you need a photo ...There has got to be a physical attraction and it is better to find that out before you start to mail etc....

Just checked your profile.

Gosh, you're only 26!

You're right, it shouldn't be about just looks. I've got mails from from good looking guys but personality wise...

On the other hand, charismatic men even if they are in the their 50's, 60's or even in their 70's.....

I dont know who your last comment was to Dave but yes, i feel that physical attraction is just as important as personality.....

For me, look is not that importance, but still I prefer to talk with people who have photo. Because with a photo to me mean that person at least "dare" to tell the world who she/he is. And even the look is not that important, I believe photos may say something about that person somehow...

There are many reasons, maybe because she doesn't like what you wrote in your profile and doesn't want to waste time with something she/he is not interested, OR, she doesn't know how to reply your message in a good way so she thinks better just skip...

Well, David, I suppose there are so many guys out there that women just move on to the next profile with a photo i would say that they possibly are a little suspicious of the no photo guys as for instance they could be hiding their identity from the public because they are married or whatever

I will be posting a pic when I get one, I'm not very good with computers. I have nothing to hide and I do like to chat to someone with a face. I do understand how you feel, it is nice for people to take the time of day with you, and get to know you without a pic.

David, just because the girls that you've approached so far are like that, doesn't mean all of them are into looks.

My most recent long distance relationship ( which lasted slightly more than 6 months ), I only get to 'see' him after his 7th email. That also, I didn't ask, he just thought it was only fair that I got to know how he actually looked like. I was already very smitten with him then. He had me at 'Hello'

Funny part was, he showed me 2 pics of him. One, when he was in his 40's and the other, when he was in his 50's. I quickly wrote back and asked for his most recent one. He immediately sent me one via FB Messenger. I prefer him now, in his mid 60's than his younger version. He has aged pretty good, I would say but then again, it's just my opinion.

David, it's like Raven stated, physical attraction is the primary start to the possibility of a relationship. There are so many other characteristics that can be overlooked dependent upon your physical appearance. We've all been raised in a world of a beautiful home, a beautiful car, a beautiful wife/handsome husband etc. So, it may not be utopia for either male or female, but the pic is a vital part of dealing with further attraction........just my opinion

Dave may have been called out to a fire

yeah, the drama is building here in Pennsylvania. I can't wait to see the face behind that mystery silhouette of a man....

smart guy that David is; now he has all the women in CS sitting on the edge of their seat with baited breath.....

why can't I think of things like that???????

Yes Sands, Keep them in suspense,...its a good move!

So...how many have you messaged that don't have pics?

If thats for me Unlaoised..In general I do like to see who I am corresponding with.

Not for you, Raven....it's for the OP

Davis kelly100

It makes no difference what you look like. It's your manners that need improving.

I'm inclined to think that this is a made up person and the joke is on us. Real people just aren't like this.

Looks are nothing without a good personality and positive attitude