Whats love got to do with it

in all my recent experiences with dating sites one thing keeps cropping up. Alot of guys seem to think that bigger girls dont seem to deserve love, affection,respect, or the right to be truly happy.

With the last dating site i was a member of believe it or not ive been called fat, lazy, white trash.... the list goes on and how prey tell is that supposed to do anything for someone with a sometimes very low opinion of herself?

For a long while all the comments such as that really truly did hurt and hurt badly, in fact id log off the computer in tears over it swearing that id never log on again but after a few days the loneliness took over and back id go.

But now im starting to see past the hurtful people with the nasty comments because i know im just as good as anyone else out there and its not my problem if someone doesnt like me. They are simply missing out on getting to know a pretty darn special person
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You are special no matter what your size. These people are so insecure in themselves they have to make other people feel bad about themselves in order that they can feel secure. Sorry if that's come across as confusing but hopefully you know what I mean. It's what's inside that counts.
yeh thats so true but sometimes it does take a wee while to sink in lollaugh

thanks for youre comment and thoughts i appreciate itteddybear
unfortunately, you have been in conversation with total morons who use these sites to wind people up (they wouldnt have the courage to do it face to face so dont worry, there are some non morons out here, I for one adore larger ladies, they are much more fun than done up stick insects.

Gary
if they ca'nt see the good.do'nt worry yourself,cause they are not worth it!!
beauty is inner. don't pay any attention to the eejits
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