Good bye
Hello and Good bye Connecting Single.Since I was working a little with e-marketing, I took my time to try several free dating sites just for one day, just for fun. This is one of the best, or maybe the best free dating sites on web at the moment… (Based on the quantity of profiles when u hit search).
However, when I stopped here I was sure about what I wanted… and I wanted to find a simple guy, also interested in a relationship… A normal guy… I didn’t ask much.
But it went all the wrong way……… I wrote down the type of guy I wanted to meet… instead of making it easier, I got lots of mails from other type of guys, trying to convince me I should not have a ethnicity preference… That love has no color, no religion borders…
I said I didn’t want my match to be shorter then me. But then I got this 5’4’’ guy telling me that he has so much to offer me…
I established an age limit. But I got this guy 15 year solder then me telling me he could show me a brand new world…. And later on this boy, 7 years younger than me, who almost manage to still my heart and disappeared.
I asked my ideal match to have a pic on his profile… and still I got loads of people telling me that I am shallow, that love has nothing to do with how u look like, but with what you have inside.
I said that my ideal match would have to be serious about being in a relationship… and still I get loads of people who just wanna hang out, just have a pen-pal, or a completely “fine being single for now”. Needless to mention the whole bunch of scammers who I never took my time to report.
To me, the “My match info”, is the best part of this site. It’s the “Don’t waste your time and don’t waste my time”, the “ I know what I want” part of the site. And when you are not sure about what you want, it is also possible to express your flexibility in there.
Anyway, my point is, the “My match info” section is supposed to make communication straighter, and not to make people try to twist each other’s mind!
This has been my experience after a bit more than a month having this profile. I recommend this website, and I’ll probably be back soon.
Good luck everyone!
Comments (8)
My favourite part is "I'm looking for...", but then I realized that no matter how detailed a description I give, there are still going to be people that just can't perceive what I have meant to say. The incompatible ones, obviously. So I'm now trying a new approach - listing who I definitely DON'T want to meet, although in my mind I don't forget imagining who I WANT to have by my side.
Why does the right girl always have the wrong age
Just keep stepping on the pedle and keep listing to your heart.
It's tru that love should have no prefrence niether by age or color, But fortunately we are all humans and I have never meet a person whitout flaws
Good luck
Honestly, I don't have to many specifics as to what I'm looking for. Yes I'd like someone close to my age or younger, that attempts to take care of themselves and is compassionate and understanding.
But I honestly will give anyone a chance to be friends, and the truth is that is the first step to having more.
You have reached the age of maturity which allows you to not listening to the minion. You know your own heart and feelings better than anyone else. I am glad to see that your head is working inspite of all the poor advise of other. Keep following your dreams and not those of others. I wish I were 30 yrs younger and you lived next door. haha ... Fair thee well...