Compulsory Blogging.

This is my first blog - so please be gentle with me!sad flower

While perusing posts on the blogs, I have noticed how member's personalities become exposed over time. It seems to me, that this sort of interaction is a much better way of getting to know someone, rather than just by profile alone.
Members can hide their true personality in a profile, or even when communicating by email with other members on the site. However, blogging has a way of revealing that which might otherwise be hidden.
With that in mind, would it not be a good idea to make it compulsory, to post at least one blog every couple of weeks/months? That way, other members can read the blogs and find out a lot more about someone they may be interested in. It would certainly weed out the scammers!

Just a thought!peace
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@Pieceofcake/ The blogs are also a great way of assessing someone's sense of humour. Don't you think?


Pieceofcake.Not really. I have a sense of humor and do find somethings funny but I also have a serious side to me too.

It's obvious we can't see one another so it would be kind of hard for me to assess someones humor.

I have a neighbor guy who is so straightfaced/dry sense of humor when he speaks that half of the time I can't tell if he's joking or he isn't.I know he has a sense of humor but like I posted half the time I really can't tell.giggle
But Cc, surely you can sense someone's humour in their writing? There have been many blogs here that I have participated in, where the humour has been off the wall and extremely enjoyable.
Pedal, behave yourself!!rolling on the floor laughing
Yessum sad flower (not)
"Has anyone here ever been interested in someone and then upon reading their posts, been completely turned off, or vice versa?"


Yeah...sigh


Pedal, I took a selfie of my bum...anything wrong with that?confused rolling on the floor laughing
Yes I've obviously seen/read the blogs but to me I guess I seem to lose the humor sometimes.
No, not at all.blushing
"Pedal, I took a selfie of my bum...anything wrong with that?"

Personally, I wouldn't but only because I'd be afraid that it wouldn't fit the frame! laugh
Or that you would loose your phone forever Lucy!!rolling on the floor laughing
Now, Piece, I didn't say anything about sitting on it! laugh
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing how big is it anyway?

I think it's part of the fun...when chatting to some "hot" manlaugh
How big is what crazy - her phone or her bum?!!rolling on the floor laughing
I meant how big is her bum?rolling on the floor laughing there are phones with really wide screen that can take it I guess...laugh

But here's one that would work best for bum selfies:

Embedded image from another site
oooohhhh, that would work! at least, I hope it would! rolling on the floor laughing
Lucy - please don't!doh That is not what I meant about people revealing themselves on the blogs!rolling on the floor laughing
Piece,

it's very much part of revealing oneself here, no doubt about thatlaugh
On a more serious note, I've been here for 19 months but there are still some regular bloggers I know nothing about...their blogs don't give out much about themselves....makes me feel they're not genuine at allsigh
Or perhaps just not interested in becoming involved in any way? dunno
Interestingly, a lot of psychologists find that their patients find it easier to express themselves through writing, rather than speaking. Especially if they have suffered some sort of emotional trauma.
Lucy,

No...the blogs they post seems like bogus, contradicting...doesn't reflect their personality written on their profile at all.

Sometimes, I start to think if they're some kind of nutter or somethingdunno
Lucy,

Many here write about what they think, their opinions...what they feel...what they did, places they went to...over time to get you make a clearer picture of a person and his personality.

Others here are just difficult to decipher...I usually stay off their blogs for I don't know what they're talking about. Knows so little about them that I find it awkward to post comment in case they'll take it the wrong waylaugh
You're probably right, Crazy. I don't read each blogs so I can't say, but it is a good medium for that, isn't it?
But there you go Crazy - their blogs contradict their profile! Just what I was talking about!
And sometimes their blogs contradict their blogs!
Ok all you lovely people, I must go now and get some food. Thank you all for your comments and for not letting my first blog fall flat on it's face!teddybear I will check back later. In the meantime - behave yourselves! Yes Lucy and Pedal, I am looking at you!!scold Later guys.peace
wave CH, there will be many reasons for the behavior or
lack of. One big one is, and you heard it, experienced it,
sensed it, is wearing two Faces. That won't change in some,
we all have different outlooks.conversing
Ooh, we been told.laugh
Hi PAC, congratulations on the first blog.

I read through it and did a double take on Sols first comment. Consequently I'd like to ask are there rules of etiquette in blogging? If I understood you correctly Sol, part-taking in blogs is cheeky when one does not post blogs?

PAC, I find everyone more or less maintains a persona regardless of what room they are in here.
No rules Ms. Freya(correct spelling) on posting, these are
a free public domain, only the owners of the site own it,
not us. It matters not if one puts up a Blog or post on them.
wave
Thanks for that Pedal.

It is indeed the correct spelling for the Norse goddess of that name or Freyja if you like. My user name is Fraya though grin
I stand correctedsmoking (feisty)roll eyes
Candy, I'm well and truly shocked that you would even suggest that some people contradict themselves!!!! innocent hug
Yeah that is completely untrue....but sometimes it happens laugh
Fraya, there's no rule saying if you comment on blogs you must post a blog. That comment was just a bit of pot stirring. laugh
doh Now now Fraya and L.M scold Read in between the lines,take note and don't wear a mask or live in a hole yawn yawn sleep confused I have a memory like an elephant and never forget the little things that make an impact on my opinion for those that are guilty, comfort I still love you both so if the shoe does not fit you don't have to sweat laugh kiss hug teddybear bouquet bouquet
Hi Misspieceofcake..
Tiz a good blog i think..

And yes i do think that over time bloggers and blog commentors do reveal more of themselves,and without realising they are doing so quite often.
Blogs posts,forum posts and posts in other areas of the site can serve as a great indicator of ones personality.

And sometimes the picture painted of someone over a length of time differs greatly to the profile write ups. Perhaps. dunno conversing

Congratulations on a succesful blog methinks.. bouquet
Oh dear...I am lost Candy doh I'll go get some coffee and come back to try figure this out
Candy, your first comment was spot on which I why I couldn't resist the tongue-in-cheek comment! hug wine
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