why dont people respond to you at least

They don't respond back because most people don't want to own up. If they responded back, they would have to own up to the fact that they've made a sweeping judgement about you based on a few words and a picture the size of a postage stamp. It's easier for them to just ignore and hope for something "better" next time.

On the positive side, you probably don't want to get to know them anyway.

I have had that experience as well. My only thought is that they are the idiots. Maybe they view us as being too good for them. Truthfully we probably are, so they have done us a favor by leaving us alone.

I think it's terrible when the person doesn't have the courtesy to respond. I find that gentlemen in the UK will at least say thanks or hi back. Too bad people are so shallow, but it's their loss. Keep a smile on your pretty face and hold your head up.

I can understand your frustration very much so. It does seem so rude when a man does this or even vise versa. I mean that is what the flowers are for, they even have a verse to say not interested! I have had it happen to me too, so don't feel all alone on this one. One guy went as far as to send me his job website and told me how much he wanted to get to know me, etc. Then, when I wrote back and said, hello, he never even replied back! I think it is like a game with some men, to see if we will respond and how many ladies they can get to write to them. It makes you wonder? I wish you better luck. If they don't respond to you, you are probably better off without them in your life anyhow. Take care. God Bless. Peace and Hugs!

Sometimes some men are too shy or scared to commit themselves to a responce,in that case they should leave the site until they have the confidence to do the right thing when a lovely woman wants to say hello, and that is to RESPOND TO IT.XX POTTER.