Do men really know what they want in a woman?

I have had some odd experiences with men especially here lately. It seems tht two want to stone me, one wants to own me and one is a friend of mine.

It all comes down to one thing. They all say they are attracted to my honesty in that I am not afraid to say what is on my mind. Reading between the lines, I take no grief from anyone as life it way too short to succumb to another.

When you have a chance to get to know men through chat or email their true personalities come through loud and clear. Now I am not desperate enough to withstand the grief that my ex husband put me through by someone else. When they attempt to dice and slice my character I will stand up to the challenge. Of course this will piss them off and the rest is history because it is either take me as I am or leave me alone.

Are their any men who truly wish to have an equal and not puppet. I can understand why so many women today are single giving the alternative.

So for the decent men, where are you or has society changed so much that one does not exist any longer?