"UNDERSTANDING MAN"("SORRY")(21)

"Oh Im Sorry"..."I Shouldnt Have Said That"..He/She Said
"You Shouldnt Have Said It?"..."And Now Youre Sorry?"
You Should Have Thought About What You Were About To Say... First
But You Didnt Did You?
Of Course You Didnt Think About It
And You Think ...Saying Youre Sorry... Is Going To Make It All Okay

It Doesnt Work That Way
It Doesnt Change The Fact That You Said It
It Doesnt Change The Fact.... That What You Said ...Might Have Been Hurtful
Nope
Sorry Doesnt Do A Damned Thing

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The Word
"Sorry"
Is A Man Made Invention.... They Came Up With
Just So
"They Could Get Themselves Off The Hook"..............detective
Flowers and choccies usually do the trick beer
I'm not so sure about that, men in my country do and I'm sure all over the world they dobeer
Nam just goes to show that we aren't perfect. Sure it'd be nice if we can all filter and recheck before we say things but then our personalities and lack good manners come in the way.

But at least we know how to apologize and be truly sorry for our missteps. I do but not always forgiven and that's the problem. sad flower
Lindsy
Ill Accept Some Flowers... And A Box of Chocolates From You
If You Do So... Desire.. To Give Them To Me..........detective
Hi Namwave
I am sure everyone has said they are sorry at some time
No one is perfect in what they say or do
If they don't mean it then you know they are not respectedhug
Miss Small.......I "Understand"
You Couldnt Have Said It Better....................detective
I often wonder if people use the words"I'm sorry" in general context,or when they really mean it ? Or is it a word use because it's convenient to just say it to maybe get themselves off the hook? Or because they don't know what else to say?

When I say I'm sorry to someone that I've wronged I'm genuine in saying so.
My Point Miss Cappy Is

Saying Your Sorry
Doesnt Change The Fact That Its been Said
Doesnt Change The Fact The Hurt One Might Have Instilled
I Do Believe That They Are Sorry...But Its Too Late
I Do Hope You Can "Understand"
..................................................
................................................detective
Exactly Cincy!!

Your Words Cover It All........................detective
I know were all different but personally if you done or said something to someone then your not really sorry after as wouldnt have done or said it in the first place, so I guess in hindsight all comes down to spur/heat of the moment when you done or said what you did dunno
Right On Sir Scotty

If Only People Could Step Back

And Give It Some Thought

Then The Word "Sorry"

Would Never Have Had To Be Invented.....................
...............................................detective
Why thank you Nam kind sir cheers
I Am Not Of Royal Blood
But You Have Been Knighted "Sir Scotty".... Anyway
...................................................
...................................................detective
Ha ha knighted by my king, that calls for a beer cheers
Here they are Nam bouquet bouquet rose flower the box of chocolate will follow.
Scotty somehow I missed your post about how flowers and candy do the trick.

Not in my world it doesn't work.I appreciate presents but the idea that someone is using a gift as Band-aid is actually really unhealthy when you think about it.

I think that it's teaches the wrong doer doing so with a quick material fix erases the need for communication and they'll probably do something wrong again and makeup for it by buying another material gift.

It's like they figure that they can buy me off.Never going to happen.
Why Thank You My Dear Lindsy

For a While
I Thought "Sir Scotty".... Was Going To Send Me The Exact Same Thing!!..........rolling on the floor laughing ........................detective
Well I was thinking about it Nam gift
Cc it was just a tongue in cheek comment, not something I would do wine
Scotty tongue in cheek huh? Do I send you some flowers and a box of candy?grin
For
It Was Then
When I Said "Im Sorry"
That I Realized
That These Two Words..... Had No Meaning Whatsoever
When...Immediately...After Saying These Two Words... I Was Told
To "Go To Hell"......................................detective
I had someone that I look up to who told me that someones words meant absolutely nothing to him.

That it was someones actions which spoke volumes.I agreed with him wholeheartedly.
Cc some home made pizza or cookies will suffice :)wine
Scotty A virtual pizza and cookie will have to do.
"Sir Scotty"...And
"The Lady Cincy"

Sounds As Though ...It Is The

"Days Of Old"

All Over Again.....................................detective
Days of old all over again.In what way?
"Robin Hood"?
"Sir Lancelot"....................... And All That Stuff?
.....................................detective
There are too many people,that use these two words in a way,that you can feel clearly that it is empty words for them....it is the next words or acting after that,that is telling if it was from the heart or not.
Sir Lancelot and Robin Hood and all that stuff.hmmm dunno
Yeah Semmy
Every Crook(When He/She ...Is Before A Judge In Court Says)
"Im Sorry".................................detective
Yes,and then they come out and make the next bad thingdoh
Yep Semmy
And The Next Time He/She Is(Before The Judge)
They Say Theu Are "Sorry" Once Again
And The Judge Says
"Im Sorry Too"
(And Then ....Throws The Book At Them).................
....................................................detective
At least that is what a good judge should do.
The Only time The Word "Sorry" Is Probably Acceptable
Is When
Someone Bumps Into You At The Coffee Shop
And Makes You Spill Your Coffee All Over Your Nicely Pressed Sunday Suit..........................detective
I had a lady customer who ran into my grocery cart and said she was sorry cause she hadn't been watching where she was going.laugh

I took one look at her and thought.Duh.
Cincy

She Sounds Like A "Sorry Case"

Have You Ever Shot Back At Them With "Unkind Words?"
Come On Now
Tell The Truth................................detective
Nam,

that's true.
Unkind words and tell the truth.

Nope I don't call then unkind words but I've had some people say unkind words to me for no reason.
But
Being The "Understanding Man"
I Do "Understand" That Some May Not "Understand" These Words.."Im Sorry"
And Its Also "Understandable"..... That Some People.... Come To An "Understanding"... That Is ..."Understandable" To Them
When...In Fact... Everybody Tried To "Understand" ...But... It Was Never "Understood" What They Had Said
For Its Always "Understandable" That Some Times I Cannot Come To An "Understanding" Even Though I Am The "Understanding Man"
I Am Truly "Sorry" If You Fail To "Understand"
.......................................................detective
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