why do guys judge a girl on their past

i dont judge we are all equal! someone will come along and listen and be worth your time and giving your number to!

HEY GIRL HOPE UR OK,WAS IN SIMILAR SIT MYSELF AND HE DID FEEL PITY FOR ME AND WANTED TO KCIK HIM WHER IT HURTS BUT IT WAS ALL WORDS AND NO ACTION,HE CEASED CONTACT.....
HE AINT WORTH IT,U AR WORTH SO MUCH MORE AND DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER AND U WILL GET IT....HIS LOSS EH!!!

Lonierose,

I am sorry to here things didn't work out between you and this guy. Certainly there are some guys out there who don't know how to deal with the issues that arise out of a committed relationship or even a purposeful sharing of your heart. You did something great and unfortunantly this guy didn't handle himself well at all. I am sorry you have experienced a troublesome past, but an encouraged you are doing well today. I am not concerned about the type of past you have had. I am more concerned about the amazing person you are today. You didn't do anything wrong. We all have the desire to be happy, safe, secure, and loved. There is nothing wrong for wanting those things. It's actually quite natural. If you ever need someone to chat with things about...feel free to email me..I don't mind at all okay.

Jacob

There are many reasons to do it. Maybe he got afraid after you told him about your past. Maybe you were not right for him and he just needed an excuse to say bye. maybe he was not mature enough. Maybe he had a lack of sensitivity. Maybe, maybe ... this could happen to everybody forgett about it.

But who am i to dare to have an opinion...i am from a country full of sins and sinners called Greece

Alot of women have used abusive pasts to gain sympathy from men, and will often use that past as an excuse for rotten behavior. Keep your head up, stay dedicated to yourself and your mission and I promise things will work out in the end.

Works both ways in my opinion , to orginal poster.

Men or woman, who cannot accept your past baggage, that we all have are not worth the time of day.

Ask yourself, do you really want to be with someone , who cannot be supportive, and accept you , past, present as you are, for what will they , NOT, be willing to accept in the future.

He was not worth your time, except to teach you want you do not want. Learn from it, grow and move forward.

You deserve the best, someone who will be there when you fall, like we all do, not someone who does not have the courage to stand beside you with just telling him about the ghosts of your past.

Best wishes, believe in yourself and love, and know that as many losers that are out there, there is still many more winners, who are still fighting for the greatest gift in life, Love!