Why Lie?

My girlfriend has her eyes set on this little cutie from one of the small islands. scold I keep telling her to be careful but she talks to him often and believes whatever he says. Now he is gone on on some suspicious business trip in some republic or the other.

I even tried to communicate with him and man was he something. He gets numbers and wants to meet you and stuff. They are getting pretty serious I believe and I think she is heading for a fall and there is nothing I can do. You are my last chance. Can somebody tell me how to get through to her? frustrated

This is one of my friends who has seen me through some of the roughest years of my life. The type of friend who you can depend on when times are tough. I have never had this type of friend before, a friend who celebrates my joys and cries when I am hurting. Usually my friends are around when life is good and disappear shortly when the sh*t hits the fan. But she never leaves and she keeps holding on til I come through it. I just don't know what else to do. I even told her about my communication with him but she has a simple explanation for everything.Some one tell me what else I can do please, please help me save my friendhelp help help
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You can lead the horse to the water but you cant force it to drink..she knows what you know. Just sit and wait my friend and be there for her if it falls through and rejoice with her if it does not.
chysanthia is correct, there is nothing you can do, they are blinded and refuse to see or she sees very clearly. Reiterating what she wrote, be the friend that is there to support her if she fails or celibate her success.

Good luck and God bless!! grin cool
Thanks but I just can't leave this be, I tried to talk to her today and she just got upset, I will not quit until she gets what I am saying.
Nothing wrong with trying to have her see your point of view, but if she continues to get upset, she may start thinking, that you don't want her to be happy. So, try if you must, but at some point, you must let go, let be and let others make their own mistakes.
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