ABBY69

My opinion is that he should come to visit you

yep,if he really wants to see you,he should come here,kinda was in same boat,but wont travel 1000 of miles if hes not prepared to do same..if it doesnt work out he has nothin to lose,u do..dont get me wrong if u care for this man,go for it,but im v sceptical when man wants u to travel........good luck ok,ur heart will tell u ..............m

Totaly agree with Missm09.. Use your
head girl and not your heart just now , Whatever happens if its to be it will sort itself !!

I'm a guy and I agree, it's to him to come and visit you...


I hope that mine will live not too far away...

If any guy has the respect that he should then I agree with the others that he should come to see you. Living abroad should send up signals with sirens and bells. If he does not agree to this with excuses or if you really care for him you would kind of mentality, consider yourself lucky to find out now. There is a time to use your heart and a time to just be smart.

A agree with all the opinon above: HE WANT TO SEE YOU???COMES TO YOU!!!
I have a online love (Wonderful man) but in first time I have a JOB and a old MOTHER and no leaves for nothing in the world.
And more: I sent a time to him(and to me self) and if no appear in the Brazil since 01 year...BYEeeeeeee@ Past Time.
Take care
stay safe
Maria

Always, Always have him come to you and play on your field you have the advantage and keep the advantage when it is planned in your backyard he has to prove himself trust worthy by doing so and if all go`s well I would still plan another visit where you are if he does not want to wait until you are confortable with visiting him then what does that say about him??

i would not go. what country is he from?

Hello dear, i have just read your message..Well, i can say you a lot of things but it is still up to you to decide. In my country when somebody says about turkish man the answer will be NO in any case. To my country they come only for having fun with girls and woman ...as their girls are not so easy like others in the world - their words not mine and in reality they are married and have children moreover their wifes are not worried much about they are travelling as they are sure their husbands will come back home any way. It is very typical for turkish men. But i dont want to judge the country they live as u should evaluate personality u speak to. Firstly if he said he has no passport ..he began your relation with not telling truth. They have 2 passports and even he doesnt have or lost one of it the second is a must and he can buy ticket any way....
It is easy to say listen your brain not your heart --- this words really easy to say but veeeeeeeeeeeerrrry difficult to do. But still dont go alone at least, go with somebody to the hotel to have rest and meet him. I still think it is better if he comes first because when u are at home even "walls" can help you.

P.S. If u want u may speak with me on messenger anastasiya_minsk@yahoo.com

HI EVERY BODY WHO GAVE MY THERE OPINION JUST WANTED TO SAY THANK YOU IT WAS VERY HELP FULL I DONT THINK I WILL BE GOING MABEY ITS BETTER IF I JUST STAY ON MY OWN FOR EVER I THINK IT WILL BE SAFER AND I HAVE BEEN ON MY OWN FOR LONG TIME SO IT WONT BE A PROBLEM GOOD LUCK TO EVERY BODY I HOPE YOU ALL FIND LOVE AND HAPPINESS

Ask him to visit you. DON'T GO. Really, don't chance it.

Hi there i would not go,,let him visit you.

Woman did u lost your mind?
Stay away from that!
U could ended up who knows where!